Bullying
How might the target feel when he/she is being bullied?
sad, mad, lonely, embarrassed
What is one thing you can do if someone is teasing you?
Act like it does not bother you.
it is important that you remeber to _____ ______ before you attempt to resolve a disagreement.
Stay calm.
A friend says to you one time "your shirt is ugly."
Teasing
If you are bullied it is best to handle it alone?
False
What are two things you should do if you know someone has been bullying you?
Lay low and Avoid that person.
What does tease-the-tease mean?
lighlty teasing the person who is teasing you back.
What are 3 coping strategies we can use when trying to calm ourselves down?
- take deep breaths
- step away for a minute to be alone
- give yourself some squeezes
- tell yourself something you can see and something you can hear
At lunch, a classmates steals your food every day.
Bullying
Bullies have trouble making friends?
False
What should you never do to the person who is bullying you?
Do not provoke the bully. Do not try and tease/bully them back. Do not try and physically fight the bully.
If you are using Tease-the- tease, what are 3 examples of what you can say.
" Big Deal", "whatever", "Who Cares?", "is that supposed to be funny?", "So what"
before you say why you are upset in a disagreement, it is important to....
listen to the other persons side first.
What is the difference between teasing and bullying?
Teasing is when both people are joking and neither gets their feelings hurt, and bullying is when it goes on more than once, it’s impactful and hurts someone, there’s a power imbalance, and it’s intentional (on purpose)
sometimes you can think someone is your friend when really they are not.
True
What should you do if you see someone else getting bullied?
you see someone getting bullied (NOT PHYSICALLY), then you can go up to the victim and help them get away from the bully or if you see someone get bullied physically you can tell an adult about the situation.
What are 2 examples of body language can you use to show the person teasing you it is not bothering you?
- shrug your shoulders.
-shake your head
- standing tall
After the person tells you their side, you need to repeat it back to them. Show us an example of how you can do this.
- "i'm upset you didn't ask me to be on your team"
-" It sounds like your upset with me because i didnt ask you to be on my team. You probably felt left out"
A classmate calls you an unkind word one time
Teasing
It takes courage to report bullying to an adult?
True
Why is it a good idea to hang out with a group of people if you are getting bullied?
If there are more people around, the bully is less likely to approach you. People around you may help defend you from the bully.
Who should you never use tease-the- tease on? (3 answers)
Teachers, Parents, or Adults
After explaining your side, it is important to say sorry and ______.
Try and solve the problem.
A kid in your class has pushed you before and yesterday they pushed you so hard you fell to the ground.
this is physical bullying and an adult needs to be told immediately.
Frequent bullying can have a long-term effect on the target?
True