Define bully
When someone is causing another person to experience pain, showing an inbalance of power, and it has happened repeatedly (pattern).
You see a girl being teased at recess.
Provide support and empathy
Remove the girl from the teasing
Report
A friends says to you one time "your shirt is ugly."
Teasing
If you are bullied it is best to handle it alone?
False
What are the 3 P's
Pain
Power
Pattern
Your best friend has recently started to pick on another student in the class. At first, you thought it was funny, but lately, the teasing has gotten meaner and meaner. You can tell that the student is becoming more and more upset, but the other kids in the class think it is funny.
Talk to your best friend about his/her behavior
Support the target
Report if it continues
At lunch, a classmates steals your food every day.
Bullying
Bullies have trouble making friends?
False
What can we do as a class to stop bullies?
Watch out for the 3 P's and report to a trusted adult.
Define bystander
A person who watches bullying happen or hears about it and does nothing to stop the bullying.
What is a positive way to handle someone bullying you?
Tell an adult, stand up for yourself in a positive way, get help, and know that there is power in numbers
You and a friend are frequenlty "play fighting" at recess
Teasing becasue you are both equally engaging in the behavior, but it's still not acceptable behavior.
Sometimes bystanders are afraid to report the bullying?
True Bonus Question: Why
How can a bystander become a defender?
1) Tell the bully to stop
2) Report the incident to a trusted adult
3) Support the person being bullied
Define target
The person who is the victim of teasing, harassment, and bullying.
A friend calls you an unkind word one time
Teasing, but not acceptable!
It takes courage to report bullying to an adult?
True
Define ally
The person who supports and provides empathy to the target.
One of your friends frequently spreads rumors about you, tells you that your clothes are ugly, and says she won't be your friend. You are confused by this behavior because you thought this girl was really your friend.
Tell your friend that her behavior is unkind
Ask your friend to stop
Stop being friends with this girl
Report
What is the difference between teasing and bullying?
Teasing is when both people are joking and neither gets their feelings hurt, and bullying is when it goes on more than once, it’s impactful and hurts someone, there’s a power imbalance, and it’s intentional (on purpose)
Frequent bullying can have a long-term affect on the target?
True Bonus question: How