How might the target feel when they are being bullied?
sad, mad, lonely, embarrassed
What 3 characteristics are needed for something to be considered bullying?
Repeated harmful behavior, power imbalance, on purpose
You see someone being teased at recess.
Tell a teacher, provide support and empathy, Remove the girl from the teasing
A friends says to you one time "your shirt is ugly."
Teasing
If you are bullied it is best to handle it alone?
False
Define bystander.
A person who does not start the bullying but stands by and doesn't do anything while the bullying happens.
Your best friend has recently started to pick on another student in the class. At first, you thought it was funny, but lately, the teasing has gotten meaner and meaner. You can tell that the student is becoming more and more upset, but the other kids in the class think it is funny.
Tell a teacher, talk to your best friend about their behavior, Support the target
At lunch, a classmates steals your food every day.
Bullying
Bullies have trouble making friends?
False
What can we do as a class to stop bullies?
Get the whole class and school on board to only say nice things to other people, let others know that they are not alone, let bullies know that the school is going to stand up against them
Define upstander.
A person who stands up and helps the person being bullied - either by talking to the bully or telling an adult.
What is a positive way to handle a bully?
Tell an adult, ignore the behavior, stand up for yourself in a positive way, get help, and power in numbers
You and a friend are frequenlty "play fighting" at recess
Teasing becasue you are both equally engaging in the behavior
Sometimes bystanders are afraid to report the bullying?
True Bonus Question: Why
How can a bystander become an upstander?
If you see someone getting bullied, then you can go up to the victim and help them get away from the bully or if you see someone get bullied you can tell an adult about the situation.
Define target.
The person who is the victim of teasing, harassment, and bullying.
A group of your friends are talking negatively about another student in your class. You think this student is nice and consider them to be a friend.
Ask them to stop, Continue to be friends with the student
A classmate calls you an unkind word one time
Teasing
It takes courage to report bullying to an adult?
True
Define empathy
The ability to understand how another person feels and why the person feels that way.
Define ally
The person who supports and provides empathy to the target.
One of your friends frequently spreads rumors about you, tells you that your clothes are ugly, and says she won't be your friend. You are confused by this behavior because you thought she was really your friend.
Tell your friend that her behavior is unkind, Ask your friend to stop, Stop being friends with this girl if she doesn't stop
What is the difference between teasing and bullying?
Teasing is when both people are joking and neither gets their feelings hurt, and bullying is when it goes on more than once, it’s impactful and hurts someone, there’s a power imbalance, and it’s intentional (on purpose)
Frequent bullying can have a long-term affect on the target?
True Bonus question: How