This is when we see things in right or wrong categories - or only one way or another way. There is no grey area.
What is All-or-Nothing Thinking - or Black and White Thinkibng
I didn't get invited to the sleep over. Now I'll never have friends ask me to their house.
What is All-or-Nothing Thinking OR What is Overgeneralization
She is moving sitting at that lunch table because she doesn't like sitting with me.
What is personalization
This is when we look at our strengths and trivialize them.
What is Minimization
These are well-learned ways of thinking about situations that are instantaneous and reflect our underlying beliefs about the world. Everyone has them!
What are automatic thoughts
This is when we pick out one negative detail in a situation and dwell on it exclusively.
What is Mental Filter - Or also, "Only the Bad"
This is an example of turning positive events into negative ones.
What is Only the Negative
After making 2 great goals, I caused our team to lose because I missed the last shot I tried in the 4th quarter.
What is Disqualifying the Positive - or - Only the Negative
Mrs. Russell's mantra to always rememberhelp your Inner World deal with your Outer World
What is "I GET TO CHOOSE"?