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My husband/wife has always ordered my food for me at restaurants since my stroke; My goal is I want to order my favorite meal again at Bob Evans myself!
What is make plan to go to restaurant; communicate with spouse; script training; explain to waitress that you have troubles with speech sometimes.
100
Your A/C breaks - you need to get it fixed because the high is 90 degrees today!
What is -script training with specifics -write down your address -going in person can help if there's a physical office -let them know that you have speech difficulty at times -monitor your speech if on the phone
100
I have a friend that I haven't talked to for a long time... I would like to reestablish the relationship...
What is -explain the aphasia to him/her -email/message -call on phone -make a plan to eat, or go to an event together
100
I see an old friend in public... he asks me "How have you been?"
What is -use aphasia script -if you are in a noisy area ask to step outside or in a quieter environment -use communication board/book -manage stress/anxiety -say we can catch up later if it's not a good time - meet up again under a more controlled situation
200
I used to go through the drive through every Monday and Friday morning at Chic-Fil-A to get breakfast. I haven't gone through a drive through since my stroke - I'm scared that they won't understand me, and I will hold up the line. I want to be able to do it again!
What is -practice script beforehand -positive affirmations -remind yourself that it's ok if it takes a little longer in line -look at menu ahead of time -drive there and try - it's ok if it doesn't go as planned!
200
You take your car in the shop for routine maintenance. They may ask you several questions about services that they offer...
What is -look up/write down possible questions you think they will ask -have a communication board or device for specifics if not y/n -let the person know that you have trouble with speech at times -don't let the stress of the situation push you into answering yes or no without understanding or meaning what you mean
200
I haven't taken my significant other on a date since the stroke - I know with Valentine's Day coming up it would be really special if I did...
What is -calling for reservations -getting flowers -environmental concerns -giving the wait staff a heads up -looking up the menu ahead of time -giving a card communicating what you really think of him/her even if you don't say it as much as you used to
200
I'm at a noisy art convention and I see a piece that I want to buy but they are asking a little too much for it...
What is -write out a simple script -gesture and use short phrases -explain that speech is difficult for you -explain that you want it, and will come back shortly to give you more time and relieve conversational anxiety
300
I love Chinese food but
What is: -script training -preread menu -write down items as simple one-word items -write down address if delivery -predetermine tip
300
You always loved going to the Lighting games with your brother... you want to talk with him after the game about what happened like you used to.
What is -inform him that you have trouble with speech at times -wait until you are in the car or a quiet environment -write notes or key words down about the game for recollection -write down questions to ask him so you aren't the one always answering the questions -tell him you would like to talk after the game*
300
You're going on a blind date... the only thing you know is her first name, a picture of her, and the restaurant you are going to meet her at.
What is -script about your aphasia; what helps and hinders -noise level of restaurant -practice what you would say ahead of time with cue words if you get stuck -questions to ask to determine compatibility
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I love getting a specific drink at Starbucks that is hard for me to say, especially if it's noisy. I am going to try to order it today....
What is -plan to go at a less busy time -write out drink and try to verbalize -positive affirmations and staying calm to minimize stress blocking thoughts -explain that it may take you longer to order -one step at a time; if you can't do it, show them it written out and try again next time!