The 3-Second Rule
How many seconds do you have to approach someone before your brain overthinks?
3
What is the "secret weapon" used to keep a conversation flowing?
Open-ended questions
What should you do with your phone while someone is talking to you?
Put it away.
Where can you look for clues about someone's hobbies?
Water bottles, t-shirts, etc.
What word means feeling worried or nervous about something uncertain?
Anxious
What is the main hurdle the 3-second rule helps you overcome?
Overthinking
Does an open-ended question require more than a "yes" or "no" answer?
Yes.
Besides your ears, what part of your face should you use to show you are listening?
Your eyes.
What "instant" thing is created when you find common ground with someone?
A bond
What verb means to pause before doing something due to uncertainty?
Hesitate
According to the text, what does your brain start creating if you wait too long to approach someone?
"What-ifs" or doubts
Turn this "yes/no" question into an open-ended one: "Do you like math?"
"What is your favorite class?" or "What is your favorite part of math class?"
What is the term for repeating back what you heard to show that you understand?
Reflecting
What is one thing every student has in common on the first day of school?
Which noun refers to the ability to do something that frightens you?
Courage
Why does moving quickly prevent your brain from talking you out of a "hello"?
It doesn't give the brain time to create fear.
Why do open-ended questions help you get more infomation to work with?
Those questions invite the other person to tell a story.
Actice listening is one of the fastest ways to build what with a new person?
Trust, or a bond.
How does reaching out first help the other person feel less alone?
It make them feel seen/comfortable/important.
What verb means to develop a close relationship with someone?
Bond
The text compares making friends to which two physical skills that require practice?
Shooting a free throw and playing guitar.
Give an example of an open-ended question you could use.
Varies, but will require a question that doesn't seek only a "yes" or "no" response.
Give an example of a "reflecting statement" you could use while listening.
Varies, example: "So, you've been playing football for five years."
Why is being the first to say "hello" described as a "brave act"?
It is proactive and helps everyone feel more comfortable.
Which verb means to move closer to someone or something?
Approach