Conflict VS Bullying
What is conflict?
Conflict is a normal part of life. It is a disagreement between two (or more) equals. Typically both sides are upset. It usually involves a compromise.
Name some ways to be a buddy not a bully.
Examples: treat others the way you want to be treated, compromise when there is a conflict, be nice to others, play with someone who is by himself/herself, and speak up for others in need.
If someone says or does something mean, what can you do?
Speak up if you feel safe enough, tell an adult, and walk away. You should also take care of yourself, such as taking deep breaths, going for a walk, or doing something you enjoy.
What is bullying?
True or False. Passing notes about a person or talking bad about another person behind someone's back is a form of bullying.
True. We shouldn't pass notes about our classmates or talk bad about other people behind their backs. It isn't a nice thing to do, and the other person usually finds out about it, which can hurt their feelings.
Name two good things a witness of bullying can do.
Help the person walk away. Report the bullying to an adult.
True or False. All bullies are BAD people.
False. Even though bullying is a very bad thing to do, it doesn't mean that person is bad.
What are some ways to solve a conflict?
Stop, Watch Your Words, Listen Up
Who can be a bully?
Anyone!
True or False. A good way to stop a bully is to fight them.
FALSE. When facing a bully, you should use your words not your fists. You should get help from an adult or else you could also get in trouble!
True or False. A person can be both a bully and be bullied?
True! A person can be hurt by a bully but can also hurt other people.
What is a compromise?
When both people win a little and lose a little.
True or False? Bullying is a normal part of growing up?
False. Bullying should NOT take place at any time or any location! Bullying is NEVER okay.
What should you do if you think you are being bullied?
Use your words to calmly talk to the person and stick up for yourself. If that doesn't work, get help from an adult.
Physical (such as hitting, kicking, punching)
Verbal (teasing, name-calling)
Emotional (making someone feel bad about themselves)
Cyber-Bullying (happens online, over text, over the phone)
Explain how bullying is different than conflict.
Conflict takes place between two equals. Bullying is not equal. Bullying is meant to hurt someone, but conflict is a natural part of friendship. Conflict occurs sometimes, but bullying takes place repeatedly.
Who is responsible for preventing bullying at our school?
Everyone!
Name two good things you can do when you feel angry or upset.
Walk away, take deep breaths, listen to calming music, read a book, talk to a friend or family member, color, talk to a teacher or counselor, or relax your body.
Can conflict turn into bullying?
Yes. Sometimes, a conflict can go too far and turn into bullying.