Behavior is Communication
Developmental Expectations
Proactive Strategies
CALM
Scenario Cards & Responses
100

This key idea reminds us that children aren't trying to give us a hard time-They are having a hard time 

What is behavior is communication?

100
This age group commonly shows tantrums, biting, and hitting 

What are Toddlers?

100

The best behavior management happens before the behavior by using these supports.

What are proactive strategies?

100

The "C" in CALM stands for doing this first.

What is Connect first?

100

A toddler bites when a toy is taken. The child may be communicating this missing skill.

What is sharing or expressing frustration?

200

Instead of asking " How do I stop this behavior? " We should ask this question instead.

What is the child trying to tell me?

200

Crying and sensory exploration are typical behaviors for this age group.

What are Infants?

200

These help children feel safe because they know what to expect each day.

What are predictable routines?

200

The "A" reminds teachers to do this before correcting behavior.

What is Acknowledge feelings?

200

A preschooler screams and drops during clean-up. this is often related to difficulty with what?

What are Transitions?

300

A child Screaming, biting, or melting down is usually communicating one of these.

What is a need?

300

Testing limits and peer conflict are common in this age group.

What Preschoolers?

300

Giving children a "5-minute warning" is an example of this proactive support.

What are transition warnings?

300

The "L" means setting this clearly and calmly.

What is Limit & Boundary

300

An infant crying intensely at drop-off is showing these common developmental challenges. 

What is separation anxiety?

400

True or False: Challenging behaviors are usually about "bad choices," not missing skills.

What is False?

400

Arguing, independence, and social drama are typical for this group.

What are School-age children?

400

Offering children limited control (" Do you want the red or blue cup?") is this called.

What are choices?

400

The "M" stands for showing children what to do next.

What is Model the next step?

400

A school-age child refuses group activities and says, " This is stupid". " "A teacher should respond using what framework?

What is CALM?

500

Name one common need children may be communicating through behavior.

What is tired, hungry, overwhelmed, attention, independence, missing emotional skills?

500

This training reminder tells us guidance should match what children are capable of at their age.

What is development matters?

500

This strategy helps prevent attention-seeking behaviors by noticing children doing the right thing.

What is Positive attention?

500

This matters more than the exact words you say when responding to behavior.

What is tone?

500

Scenario discussions always ask: What is the child communicating, what proactive strategy could help, and how can we respond using this?

What is CALM and proactive support?