Addiction
Recovery
Social Pain
Trauma
Can Literally Be Anywhere
100

Return to a pattern. 

What is Relapse?

100

How you respond to problems- how you try to solve them. 

What is Coping?


100

Someone trusted turned on you.

What is Betrayal?

100

Feels like it's happening again.

What is flashback?

100

Always on guard.

What is Hypervigilance?

200

Completely refraining from using drugs alcohol, or engaging in addictive behavior.

What is Abstinence?

200

Healing, growth, progress or change are all words for this.

What is Recovery?

200

This is being singled out for harm while others were not.

What is Scapegoating?

200

Set limits to protect their physical, emotional, mental, and interpersonal well being.

What are Boundaries?

200

One time setback.

What is Slip?

300

Reaching a point where the negative consequences of addiction become severe enough to motivate change.

What is Hitting Bottom?

300

Three types of recovery goals.

What is abstinence, harm reduction, and controlled use?

300

Traumas like incest, torture, and genocide are so extreme that others may turn away or deny them.

What is Taboo?

300

An emotional response to an event or series of events that overwhelms a person's ability to cope.

What is Trauma?

300

"To give power"

What is Empowerment?

400

A coping skill in which a person observes craving without acting on them, allowing the urge to rise and fall like a wave.

What is Urge-Surfing?

400

The best sides of you are "driving the car" enough to stay on the right road.

What is Sustained Recovery?

400

This is what you feel when you or others are subjected to injustice, betrayal, discrimination, isolation, persecution, racism, exclusion, or other forms of social suffering. 

What is Social Pain?

400

Repeating patterns, behaviors, or relationship dynamics connected to unresolved trauma.

What is Reenactment?

400

Actions that protect someone from the natural consequences of their behavior, unintentionally allowing the problem to continue.

What is Enabling?

500

Trying to recover money, time, opportunities, or other losses by continuing a harmful behavior, often making the situation worse.

What is Chasing Losses?

500

The ability to sustain a better version of yourself and one larger than trauma and addiction.

What is Wholeness?

500

Consequences that can occur due to social pain. 

What is weaken your immune system, trigger aggression, distort self-perception, lead to isolation?

500

A subconscious defense mechanism where the mind compartmentalizes conflicting emotions or experiences into extremes, like "all good" or "all bad".

What is Splitting?

500

Someone who has stopped using substances but has not addressed the emotional, behavioral, or lifestyle issues associated with addiction.

What is "Dry but Not Sober"?