DeLisha
girl fighters
real boys, good girls, and girl fighters
courting conflict
terries story
100

what grade was DeLisha in when she started fighting?

what is the 2nd grade?

100

how does the girl fighter persona emerge?

what is through anger, isolation, and frustration poor black girls internalize?

100

According to Jones, how are “real boys” expected to handle conflict?

What is by being physically dominant and aggressive?

100

What does “courting conflict” mean in the context of Chapter 3?

What is deliberately engaging in or escalating tension to maintain or gain respect?

100

What moment does Terrie identify as the start of her reputation as a “violent person”?

What is her first fight at age six over a pair of roller skates and a boy named Michael?

200

how does DeLisha defy the common expectations of girls?

what is her claim to be all about fighting?

200

what are the benefits of being a girl fighter?

what is protect her from certain challenges and allow her freedoms?

200

What are “good girls” expected to do when confronted with conflict?

What is stay composed, walk away, and avoid fighting?

200

Why might a girl choose to court conflict rather than avoid it?

What is to send a message that she won’t tolerate disrespect or to preemptively assert dominance?

200

How does Terrie explain her repeated use of violence in her neighborhood and school?

What is to protect her reputation and ensure people don’t disrespect or challenge her?

300

Why did Delisha feel she had to respond to being disrespected?

What is because staying silent would make her look weak or “soft”?

300

what are the consequences of being a girl fighter?

what is making oneself more vulnerable to retaliatory actions that range from stared to life threatening assaults?

300

How does this chapter show gendered double standards?

What is boys are rewarded for toughness, while girls are punished for it?

300

When does a fight have no meaning?

What is when there is no audience?

300

What does Terrie’s reaction to the doctor’s advice reveal about her worldview?

What is that she sees preserving her reputation as more important than following advice about nonviolence, because reputation ensures her safety?

400

What does Delisha’s story show about how girls earn respect?

What is they often have to fight or stand up for themselves publicly?

400

Why do some girls embrace the fighter identity?

What is to protect themselves and stop repeated conflict?

400

What often triggers the transition from “good girl” to “fighter”?

What is a public challenge or disrespect that must be answered?

400

What are "campaigns for respect"?

what are ongoing efforts by girls to earn or protect their reputation through repeated acts of toughness?

400

What does Terrie use to maintain her reputation without fighting?

What is subtle intimidation, like hallway “bumps” and verbal challenges?