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100
You had a fight with your brother.
Little deal-Medium deal
You two can talk it out. Take a break. Ask mom for help if needed.
100
You have to finish a worksheet at home because you didn’t get it done in class.
Little deal- because you’ll be able to get it done at home with the help of family. You can do it also during session.
100
You lose a game at recess
Little deal-
You can always play again. Games are for having fun, not winning or losing. Ask to play a different game.
100
Your friend has a toy you like, and you put it in your backpack.
Big deal-
You are stealing. You need to ask for toys. You can ask to play or barrow a toy and its okay if they say no.
200
Mom cannot take you to Mcdoanlds after school today
Little deal-
You’ll get to go another day in the week or following week. You can have other yummy food.
200
Your friends want to play a different game than you.
Little deal- because you can ask them to play your choice after, you don't have to play, you can also suggest a different game you know both of you like.
200
A friend bumps into you
Little Deal-because you can say excuse me or sorry for bumping into them
200
You cannot find your favorite toy and you are upset.
Little deal-Medium deal
You can look for it and ask for help. Pick a different toy. Use a coping skill!
300
The house is on fire and spreading.
Big Deal
Call 911. Go outside. Ask a neighbor for help if alone.
300
You cannot play on your phone, a game is deleted, or the phone is taken away.
Little deal
You can play with something else. You can play a different game. You will get your phone back, no need to worry.
300
Someone you love very much passes away.
Big deal-
You can pick a coping skill. You can communicate your feelings. You can cry. Etc.
300
You have to eat your vegetables or fruits before eating dessert
Little deal- because vegetables and fruits are good for your body
400
Someone knocked over your lego's and they broke on the floor.
Little Deal.
You get to fix it and build it again!
400
There was a change in your schedule and you have to do something else
Little deal- because this is the time to practice your flexibility.
400
You fall down and scrape your knee on the playground.
Little Deal-Medium
You can get an ice pack from the front office.
You can keep playing if it's not bad.
You can ask for help from a teacher, friend, or family member.
400
Someone runs into the middle of traffic
Big deal-
Don't run, use the cross walk, walk with a parent, hold hands, look both ways.
500
What makes you sad? And what can you do when sad?
500
You didn’t get enough points to earn fun friday
Little deal- you can always try for next week.
500
What makes you angry?
And what can you do when angry?
500
You are not allowed to watch a video on YouTube anymore.
Little deal
You can watch something else.
YouTube has lot of other fun videos.
I'm not allowed to watch certain videos because they aren't appropriate for me.