Safe or Unsafe
Someone gives you a high-five after a game.
You feel scared or unsure about someone touching you. Who can you tell?
A trusted adult, Always tell an adult, even if unsure.
Who does your body belong to?
yourself
Your tummy feels twisty and your heart beats fast when someone gets too close. What does that mean?
🧠 “That’s my body’s warning sign. I can step back and tell an adult I trust If I feel unsafe”
Someone at school says, “Let’s play a game, but don’t tell anyone what we do.”
🚫 “That’s not a safe secret. I’m telling a teacher.”
A friend asks to see your private parts.
un-Safe; Private parts are private.
Who are people in your Safe Circle?
Parents, teacher, counselor, grandparent
What can you say if you don’t want a hug?
“No thank you” or “Not right now”
Can you say “No” to a grown-up who tries to touch you in a way that makes you uncomfortable?
💪 “Yes! My body, my rules.”
Someone bumps into you at recess and touches your bottom by accident.
😐 “It was an accident, but if it happens again, tell a teacher.”
A doctor checks your tummy with a parent there.
Safe; Safe when a trusted adult is present.
If one adult doesn’t listen, what can you do?
Tell another adult
What can you do if someone touches you and you feel uncomfortable?
Say no, get away, tell a trusted adult
If you tell one adult and they don’t listen, what should you do?
🗣️ “Keep telling until someone helps me and listens to me”
You told someone “No” when they made you uncomfortable, and they got mad.
✅ Yes — tell another trusted adult until someone helps.
Someone says, “Don’t tell anyone, it’s our secret.”
Un-safe,
Secrets about touch are not safe.
Who should never ask for secrets about touch?
Anyone;
Secrets about touch are never okay.
Can grown-ups ever break body rules?
No;
Even adults must follow safety rules.
Someone offers you candy or a toy and says, “Come with me, but don’t tell your parents.” What do you do?
🚫 “Say no, get away, and tell a trusted adult right away.”
A grown-up says, “I’ll give you candy if you give me a hug or a kiss.”
🚨 “No,” walk away, and tell a trusted adult.
Bonus: If a friend wants me to pull my pants down for fun, what's a safe decision to do?
Say no, that is not ok, it's inappropriate, I can get into trouble. Tell a safe adult.
Someone tells you they’ll get in trouble if you tell what happened. What do you do?
✅ Answer: “Tell a trusted adult right away.”
Someone says, “It’s just our little secret. Don’t tell anyone.”
🚨 “Secrets about touch are never safe — I will tell a trusted adult.”
A family friend gives you a big hug, but you don’t feel comfortable.
🗣️ “No thank you” or “I don’t want a hug right now.”
congratulations!
You’re a Safety Hero because you know what to do if something feels wrong!
CONGRATS on completing today's learning lesson.