Types
What is the definition of emotional boundaries? What happens if you cannot create those emotional boundaries?
Separating your feelings from other people's feelings, know where their feelings end and where yours start.
If you cannot create emotional boundaries, the person may become codependent on you.
It is approrpiate to add a current/previous youth on social media platforms.
True or False
False
What's an example of how to avoid crossing boundaries?
-Respect Each Other
-Settle Disagreements therapeutically
-Keep the relationship professional
-limit and appropriate self- disclosure
-Implement rationale detachment
Give an example of an "I" Statement.
" I feel uncomfortable when"....Instead of "You always..."
Why are boundaries created?
Boundaries are created to set limits on what you will and won't accept.
What are a few examples of material boundaries?
It is okay to show a youth your social media platform/picture.
True or False
False
What are ways to violate boundaries?
-Verbal Abuse (insulting, name calling, etc.)
-Physical Abuse (Pushing, shoving, hitting, kicking, etc.)
-Threats (causing fear to make someone comply)
-Being intimate with a youth
-Venting to a youth
-Displaying favoritism towards clients or youth
-Utilizing profanity with/towards youth
-Projecting
Give an example of setting a clear expectation with a youth.
"I need you to talk calmly, if you would like to continue this conversation."
(If a youth is being verbally aggressive towards you during a conversation)
EVERYONE IN TENNESSEE!
What are some examples of personal boundaries?
It is appropriate for a staff to inform a youth about what another staff posted on their social media platform.
True or False
False.
What would be a proper response/reaction if a youth violates your boundaries during a verbal interaction.
-Stay calm
-Set limits
- Be firm and assertive
- End the interaction in a therapeutic manner
Why is respecting a youth's autonomy important?
It encourages collaboration rather than control.
Why are boundaries important?
•Boundaries provide a sense of comfort
•Boundaries provide a sense of security
•Boundaries mark out the “playing field” for freedom (teaches them what is in bounds, and what's out of bounds)
•Boundaries help kids to gain adults’ trust
What are mental boundaries?
Limitations/boundaries on:
It is okay to post a picture that was taken with a youth on your social media platform as long as the picture was taken at a Youth Villages event and you place an emoji over the youth's face.
True or False
FALSE!
What can be a consequence of violating boundaries with a youth.
- Diminishing respect
-Compromised safety
-Consultation
-Termination
Why is utilizing a calm voice tone effective when setting boundaries?
It keeps focus on the issue rather than escalating emotions.
Why is it important to be aware of the boundaries of others?
- Displays respect
-Prevents harm
-Protects the relationship
-Teaches healthy relationships
What's the difference between emotional boundaries, and mental boundaries?
Emotional boundaries help you separate your feelings from others. Mental boundaries are your thoughts, values, opinions, and beliefs.
What steps do you take if a previous youth messages you on social media and says, "I miss you, you were my favorite staff."
- Do not respond
-Consult with your direct supervisor
Provide an example of a recent boundary violation that occurred in the milieu and how you handled it in a therapeutic manner.
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What is the difference between setting limits vs giving an ultimatum.
Setting limits encourages cooperation and giving ultimatum encourages resistance and therapeutic relationship.
What is the correlation between trauma and establishing healthy boundaries.
Trauma impacts brain development, and therefore behaviors, boundaries, and relationships are impacted because of this developmental delay.