Setting Boundaries
Boundary Types
Consent
RESPECT
100

Is this good boundary setting:

"GET THE HECK AWAY FROM ME?" 

No. A better boundary would be "Please give me some personal space".

100

TRUE or FALSE: you have to ask before touching or borrowing a friend's phone. 

TRUE: touching someone's things without asking is breaking material boundaries.

100

No means No

Yes means?

Yes!

100

By listening to others' boundaries we give them _______?

RESPECT. By following their boundaries we show them respect.

200
Is this a good Boundary?

"Please do not move my backpack"

Yes it is great :)

200
If I want to hug my friend to show them I love them what should I do first? 

ASK THEM if they want a hug

200

Giving CONSENT means you ____ to let it happen

Agree to let it happen 

200
True or False: before asking for hugs, hand shakes, or high fives we should give people personal space?

True: personal space helps people feel more comfortable in conversation. 

300

Which Body language is better for setting boundaries? 

picture #2 or the right image 

300

What type of boundary is this?

"Please do not call me past 6:00 pm" 

Time Boundary

300

TRUE OR FALSE: If you are unsure if someone wants to be touched you should just touch them to find out. 

FALSE! If you are unsure, ASK to see if they want to be touched.

300

Is this person feeling comfortable?

No! He needs to be given some space 

400

Should you compromise when setting boundaries?

Yes! you do not have to but often compromise can help prevent conflict later on. 

400
This type of boundary includes: discussing personal issues/topics and deep feelings and emotions

Emotional Boundaries

400

If someone has given Consent can they change their mind? 

YES!! they can change their mind at any point. 

400

"please stop" and "No thank you" are examples of:

~ verbal cues ~