Traits of rigid, porous, or healthy
boundaries
Types of Boundaries
Violations
Words
Riddles
100

Has few close relationships and is protective of personal information.

What is rigid boundaries.

100

Refers to personal space and physical touch. These types of boundaries may be violated if someone touches you without permission.

What are physical boundaries.

100

What's an example of crossing an emotional boundary?

Sharing someone else's personal information. 

Belittling, criticizing, bullying, and/or gossiping about an individual. 

100

This word is a full sentence. 

What is, "No."

100
What has to be broken for you to use it?

What is an egg

200

Fears being rejected if they do not do what others want them to do.

What is porous boundaries.

200

Refers to a person's feelings. These boundaries are violated when someone criticizes, belittles, or invalidates another person's feelings.

What are emotional boundaries.

200

What is an example of crossing an intellectual boundary?

Putting down people's ideas, telling them that they're stupid, preventing people from being who they want to be. 

200

What's a good sentence starter to keep conflict low and effectively communicate your needs when setting boundaries. 

What is using "I" statements versus "You."

200

I’m tall when I’m young, and I’m short when I’m old.

What is a candle?

300

Accepting when others say "no" to them.

What is healthy boundaries.

300

Refers to thoughts and ideas. These boundaries are violated when someone dismissed or belittles another person's thoughts or ideas

What are intellectual boundaries.

300

What's an example of crossing a time boundary?

What is your person being late frequently, requesting to spend time with you when you've already indicated that your busy.

300

What is a key part of setting a boundary?

What is telling the receiver exactly what you NEED from them. 

300

What question can you never answer yes to?

What is are you asleep yet?

400

This person refuses to tell anyone "No".

What is porous boundaries.

400

Refers to consent, agreement, respect, understanding of preferences and desires, and privacy.

What are sexual boundaries.

400

What is an example of crossing a romantic or sexual boundary? 

Asking them to do things without consent, not taking "No" for an answer. 

400

What are the five steps to setting a boundary?

1. State how you feel and what you need. 

2. State the boundary. 

3. State the consequence. 

4. Take action to follow through with consequence. 

5. Deal with discomfort. 

400

 I have branches, but no fruit, trunk or leaves. What am I?

What is a bank?

500

Does not compromise values for other people.

What is healthy boundaries.

500

Refers to how a person uses their time. These boundaries are violated when another person demands too much of another's time.

What are time boundaries.

500

What's an example of crossing a physical boundary?

Demanding someone's passwords, making them pay for things, taking their physical property, not allowing them to dress the way that they want to. 

500

What do you do when you set a boundary with someone who is critical and makes fun of you.

What is telling them "It's not okay with me that you do that. I'd like you to please stop. If you do not, I will leave the room. (Move to a different seat. Get vocal, etc.) 

500

You see a boat filled with people, yet there isn’t a single person on board. How is that possible?

What is they are all married