Family Boundaries
What should you do if a family member makes you feel uncomfortable?
Tell another trusted adult — it's okay to speak up, even if it's someone close to us or we care about.
True or False: It is safe to use the same password for everything!
False! If a hacker finds out the password to your e-mail account, it will be worse if that's the same one you use for your bank account, SnapChat, and TikTok
What is peer pressure?
Peer pressure is feeling pushed to do something because others are doing it.
Your friend is overly trusting and shares their secrets with everyone. This is an example of...
a.) Porous Boundaries
b.) Healthy Boundaries
c.) Rigid Boundaries
a.) Porous Boundaries
What are the initials of the consumer whose last day is today?
MB!!!!
What is a respectful way to tell a family member you disagree with them?
Stay calm and use your words. Use "I" statements or "I feel" statements.
What should you do if someone online makes you feel uncomfortable?
Block/report them and tell a trusted adult.
True or False: It only counts as peer pressure if you're encouraging someone to do something objectively harmful like drinking or smoking.
False! Encouraging someone to change their activities, identity labels, interests, likes and dislikes, etc. to be more compatible with you can be peer pressure as well.
Your friend is supportive when you need to talk but always lets you know when she's not available or not feeling up to listening right now. This is an example of...
a.) Porous Boundaries
b.) Healthy Boundaries
c.) Rigid Boundaries
b.) Healthy Boundaries
What does CBH Care stand for?
Comprehensive Behavioral Healthcare
True or False: It's okay to ask for space at home.
True, though adults may have certain conditions or limitations on the privacy they'll allow you, in order to keep you safe.
What is one example of an online boundary?
Not giving away personal information on social media or in video games.
What’s one way to say “no” to a friend who is pressuring you to do something?
"I'd rather not"
"No thank you"
"That's not for me"
Your friend has had some toxic relationships in the past. These days, she says "no" to everyone who asks her out, even if she likes them. She has...
a.) Porous Boundaries
b.) Healthy Boundaries
c.) Rigid Boundaries
How many full-time staff work for New Directions (not including interns or Oyenike)?
4
What do you call a region around your body that you guard against unwanted intrusion?
Personal space!
Does seeing a picture of someone and hearing a voice recording prove they are who they say they are? Why or why not?
No. These days anyone can use AI to change their image and voice or even create a convincing looking fake profile picture.
Does everyone at school have the same boundaries. Why or why not?
No.
Everyone is different. There may be some behaviors that other people do not like that you may not mind. There may be some behaviors that really bother you, but your classmates are ok with it.
How do you set a boundary with someone who does not respect boundaries?
Plan how you will respond if they do not respect your boundaries, then follow through!
How many kids are currently coming to New Directions (including Mondays through Thursdays)?
11
What are some factors that could affect a family member's personal boundaries?
Multiple answers including age, culture, gender, generation they're from, how close of a relative they are, how they were raised, religious beliefs, their own mental health or trauma history, where they grew up.
You met someone online who seems really cool. Their parents recently kicked them out, and they have no money for food. Should you send them $20 from your allowance? Why or why not?
No. They may be a scammer or trying to take advantage of online strangers. It is better to encourage them to talk to a trusted adult about what is happening to them.
A friend calls you late at night when you are in bed to tell you about their problems with their boyfriend. This friend often pressures you to stay up late listening to their problems. You are tired and want to go to sleep. What can you say to set a healthy boundary?
"I can tell you are upset. I want to talk to you, but I need to go to bed. Maybe we can talk tomorrow."
Boundaries should be as ______ as possible.
How many arms does a squid have?
10