Boundaries
What does Boundaries mean to you
Boundaries are the limits we set to protect our comfort, safety, and well-being. They help us communicate what we are and are not okay with in relationships. Healthy boundaries are about respect, not control.
What does consent mean to you?
consent means giving permission or saying yes in a way that feels safe and comfortable.
Describe a red flag
This term describes warning signs that a relationship may not be healthy or safe.
Describe a green flag
positive signs that a relationship is healthy, respectful, and safe.
The D for Direct means you step in right away and clearly say something when you see a problem. What is Direct action?
Speaking up or telling someone to stop in a clear, calm way.
Jordan tells their partner they don’t want to do something, but the partner keeps saying, “Come on, everyone does this,” and won’t let it go. Is this consent?
No. This is not consent because repeated pressure means the choice isn’t freely given.
Name one example of a red flag in a relationship.
Pressuring someone, ignoring boundaries, or making them feel guilty.
Name one example of a green flag in a relationship.
Respecting boundaries, listening, or communicating honestly.
The D for Distract means you interrupt a situation without confronting it. What is Distract?
Creating a distraction to break up a situation and keep someone safe.
Name two things you can set boundaries around
electronics, time, self ect.
What is the age of consent in Texas
You can not consent if you are 16 and under
Why is it important to pay attention to red flags early in a relationship?
Because noticing red flags early can help prevent harm and protect your emotional and physical well-being.
After a party, one partner texts the next day to check in and ask how the other person felt about what happened. What green flag does this show?
Care, communication, and respect after intimacy.
The D for Delegate means you don’t handle it alone. What does it mean to Delegate?
Getting help from friends, staff, or someone in charge.
True or False: You can not set boundaries with your girlfriend
False you can set a boundary with anybody
Name one red flag that shows someone might not be respecting consent,
One red flag is when someone pressures you or makes you feel guilty for saying no.
What is one healthy way to respond if you notice a red flag in a relationship?
Communicate your boundary clearly, trust your feelings, and observe whether the behavior changes.
One partner says they only feel comfortable with kissing right now. The other agrees without complaining or pushing and keeps the vibe respectful. What green flag is this?
Respecting boundaries without pressure.
The D for Delay means helping after the moment has passed. What is Delay?
Checking in later to offer support or help.
Why is it important to communicate your boundaries and check in on other people’s boundaries, even if you know them well?
It’s important to communicate and check boundaries because everyone is different and their comfort levels can change over time. Talking about boundaries helps prevent misunderstandings and keeps relationships respectful and safe.
What is the acronym that helps us remember what real consent looks like?
F R I E S
When red flags continue or get worse, what steps should someone take to stay safe and supported?
They should seek help from trusted friends, family members, counselors, or support services, and prioritize their safety and well-being.
Why is it important to notice and value green flags, not just avoid red flags?
Because green flags help build trust, safety, and healthy relationships, and they show what respectful love should look like.
The D for Document means safely recording what’s happening. What does Document mean?
writing down or recording a video