Understanding boundaries
This term describes the ability to say "no" without feeling guilty
What is assertiveness
Emotional boundaries help regulate your...
feelings and emotional space
This skill is crucial for effectively communicating boundaries.
What is communication?
What are common signs that someone's boundaries are being violated?
Feeling uncomfortable, stressed, or violated; noticing patterns of disrespect.
What is 2x2?
4
Boundaries help to define these two aspects of relationships
what are expectations and limits
What is a boundary violation
A boundary violation occurs when someone disregards or crosses another person's limits without permission. Example: Sharing personal information without consent
What are some non-verbal cues that can communicate boundaries?
Body language (e.g., stepping back, avoiding prolonged eye contact).
Name one strategy for dealing with boundary violations in relationships.
Open communication, setting clear consequences, seeking mediation.
What planet do we live in?
Earth!
Name one type of boundary that involves physical space
what is physical boundaries
Name one type of boundary commonly set in professional environments
what are professional boundaries (e.g, maintaining a professional distance, not discussing protected personal information, and boundaries related to work responsibilities.)
Name one technique for setting boundaries assertively but respectfully
Using "I" statements (e.g., "I feel uncomfortable when..."), setting clear consequences. (If you continue to cross my boundaries I can no longer be your friend.)
How can someone differentiate between healthy compromise and boundary compromise?
Healthy compromise respects individual limits and values, whereas boundary compromise sacrifices personal well-being.
Therapist, YS, staff or a trusted adult
Boundaries should be set based on two factors
what are personal values and comfort levels
what are the differences between rigid, porous (not secure), and healthy boundaries
ridgid- overly strict (black and white)
Porous - loose boundaries (grey area)
healthy boundaries - balanced and enforced
How can someone reinforce boundaries once they've been set?
By reinforcing verbally and through consistent actions.
What role does empathy play in respecting others' boundaries?
Empathy helps individuals understand others' perspectives and adjust their behaviors accordingly.
How can I set a boundary if someone is being unkind to me?
"I feel disrespected when you are mean to me, can you please stop that?"
What is the purpose of setting healthy boundaries in relationships
to protect personal well-being, maintain healthy relationships, and foster mutual respect and trust
How can someone maintain boundaries in a healthy and assertive way?
clear communication, consistency, assertiveness, and by respecting the boundaries of others (treating others how you want to be treated)
Why is self-awareness important in maintaining healthy boundaries?
Self-awareness helps individuals understand their needs and limits, enabling them to communicate boundaries effectively.
How can cultural differences impact the perception and setting of boundaries?
Cultural norms and expectations influence how individuals perceive and enforce boundaries.
Tell me a time you set a boundary, how did you do it? did it work?
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