Importance of boundaries
Quick Boundaries
Broaching Boundaries
Boundary Crossings
100

Why are boundaries created?

Boundaries are created to set limits on what you will and won't accept.  

100

Give an example of bad personal boundaries.

pushing, hitting, touching without permission, etc

100

True of False? Every person has the same personal boundaries.

False

100

Give an APPROPRIATE example of a verbal or physical boundary crossing.

•Verbal: insulting, name calling, threatening, etc.

•Physical (Pushing, shoving, hitting, kicking, etc.)

200

Why is it good to know someone's boundaries?

-You can spend time with that person in a way that makes them comfortable and calm!

-It shows respect!

-It shows that you are a safe person

200

This is something you should be doing FIRST, before touching someone's body/belongings.

What is asking for permission?

200
This is something that allows you to recognize & understand the feelings of others. Hint: Try on someone else's shoes!
What is EMPATHY?
200
Mr. Will left his jolly ranchers out and he is not around. Should I take one?

No! ask for permission first PLEASE. 

300

What happens if you DON'T respect someone's boundaries

-They may not trust you

-They might not want to play with you

-they may become upset with you. 

300

What is one way you can respond to someone setting a boundary?

"Okay", "Thanks for letting me know", "My bad" , and Stop doing the thing you were doing

300

When someone is in my way, I should say this to get them to move?

"Excuse me"

300

You hear someone say that they are going to fight your friend after school. What should you do first?:

a) Give them a knuckle sandwich

b) Warn your friend 

c) Tell an Adult and ask for help 

C! Let an adult know and ask for help 

400

How many times should someone have to ask you to respect their boundaries?

ONCE! If they have to ask you multiple times that means you are not respecting their boundaries. 

400

In general, How much personal space should you give someone?

Arms length (around 2-3 feet)

400

Give an APPROPRIATE example of a time where you may have to be in someone's personal space bubble. (inside their personal boundary)

in line, sports, working as a group, etc.

400

A staff member/teacher/other kid tries to talk with you while you are upset but you don't feel ready to talk. should you 

A) Walk off

B) Yell "Shut up!"

C) ask for space

C.

500

Do your boundaries matter more than someone else's? 

No! everyone's boundaries matter and deserve to be respected. 

500

This is something that allows you to recognize & understand the feelings of others. Hint: Try on someone else's shoes!

Empathy

500

True or False: If someone sets a boundary with me, that means they do not like me.

False

500

A friend is upset because someone hit them: is it appropriate to give them a hug without asking?

Inappropriate! Always ask for permission to touch someone if they are upset.