Boundaries in Movies
Boundary Types
Sounds of Boundaries
Healthy Relationships
Unhealthy Relationships
100

In this movie, a clownfish parent learns to let their child explore the ocean reef instead of keeping them safe at home all the time.

What is Finding Nemo

100

This type of boundary protects your body and personal space, like asking before hugging.

What is a physical boundary

100

This means standing up for yourself while still being kind to others.

What is "advocacy" or "assertiveness"
100

In a healthy relationship, both people feel safe to say this word and have it honored.

What is "no"

100

In unhealthy relationships, a person may ignore or cross these

What are boundaries

200

In this movie, a young princess and her mother argue about choices, but eventually they learn to understand and respect each other’s feelings.

What is Brave

200

This type of boundary involves your feelings and choosing what emotions you share.

What is an emotional boundary

200

This happens when someone ignores clear limits and keeps pushing anyway.

What is boundary-crossing

200

This is when people listen to each other’s feelings and treat one another kindly.

What is respect

200

These are warning signs that tell us something might not be safe, healthy, or okay in a relationship.

What are red flags

300

In this movie, a girl’s emotions struggle when one tries to take over, but she learns it’s okay to feel all her emotions and express herself.

What is Inside Out

300

This boundary type is about how people talk to you, including tone, words, and respect.

What is a verbal boundary

300

Saying “If you cared about me, you would do this” is an example of this unhealthy boundary behavior.

What is guilt-tripping

300

This means telling the truth and taking responsibility for your actions.

What is honesty

300

This is when someone hurts another person on purpose with words, actions, or behavior to control or scare them.

What is abuse

400

In this movie, a young superhero struggles to manage her powers and respect the rules at home, eventually finding a balance between independence and family boundaries.

What is The Incredibles

400

This type of boundary includes rules about texting, social media, and online sharing.

What is a digital (or online) boundary

400

This happens when someone uses fear, threats, or pressure to control another person’s choices.

What is coercion

400

This helps solve problems by talking calmly instead of yelling or hurting feelings.

What is communication

400

This is when someone tries to make you doubt your memory, feelings, or reality by saying things like “That never happened.”

What is gaslighting

500

In this movie, a group of monsters work together but learn to respect each other’s personal space and roles at the scare factory.

What is Monsters, Inc.

500

This boundary helps you manage how much time and energy you give to others.

What is a time boundary

500

Healthy boundaries often sound clear, calm, and like this type of statement.

What is an “I” statement

500

Healthy relationships include honoring personal space and accepting “no” the first time.

What are boundaries

500

This happens when someone refuses to take responsibility and always blames the other person.

What is blame-shifting