Bucket Filler or Spiller?
What is our friend the bucket's name?
What is Phil
What is a bully?
Someone who is mean to someone else ON PURPOSE
You receive a text message from a friend saying that she will not be your friend anymore if you keep talking to a certain other girl in your class. What should you do?
(Correct answers may vary)
What do we call it when someone uses their body to bully someone?
PHYSICAL bullying
You see Joe accidentally bump into Steve in the hallway. Steve gets mad and yells at Joe, calling him a "Big Oaf!" What should you do?
Since Joe did this by accident, Joe should say he is sorry. Steve should apologize for calling Joe a mean name. As a bystander, you can encourage each boy to act appropriately.
What is the current character trait we are working on this month?
RESPECT
Why do bullies bully?
We're not completely sure
It could be they are not sure how to get their own needs met (as in getting attention)
Have other personal problems
Don't know how to solve their problems
It's PE class. Everyone is able to make a basket, except Omar. Sharon yells out across the gym, "What's the matter with you, Omar? You shoot like a kindergartner!" The others kids say nothing. We call them....
bystanders
What do we call it when someone uses WORDS to bully someone?
VERBAL bullying
Why do some people sit back and laugh along or do nothing when they see or hear bullying happen?
They might be bullies, too
They might be afraid the bully will turn on them
They might not know what to do
If you do something nice for someone, you are a bucket....
Filler!
What is silent bullying?
Excluding someone
It's PE class. Everyone is able to make a basket, except Omar. Sharon yells out across the gym, "What's the matter with you, Omar? You shoot like a kindergartner!" Brian says to Sharon: "That's mean! We all have things we're good at. You owe Omar an apology." We would call Brian an....
Upstander... Yay!
Sarah invites everyone in the class except one student. This is called what type of bullying?
Silent (excludes others)
In the olden days, they used to say "Sticks and Stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me." Is this TRUE? Why or why not?
Words can HURT
Doing or saying mean things to someone means that person is a bucket....
Spiller!
Online electronics, internet
Your friend shows you a text message she got last evening from a boy in another school. Your friend has never met this person. The boy wants your friend to send pictures of her to him. "My mom will be so mad at me if she finds out about this, you have to keep it a secret!"
Advise your friend that ANYONE you do not know is a STRANGER on the internet
It's not safe to share personal information with people we do not know
Tell an adult
Bullying that occurs electronically is called
Cyberbullying
TRUE or FALSE: Afterschool you receive a text message from a classmate. The student tells you "You'd better not sit next to Toni at lunch tomorrow, or I'm going to punch you." The school can't do anything about this since it happened outside of school.
FALSE! By law, it is a school's job to keep students safe EVEN WHEN EVENTS OCCUR OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL.
What is one extra thing you could do to stop bullying but you were afraid to tell someone?
Fill out a Bucket Filler/Spiller Sheet
What do we call it when someone says something mean about someone else online?
Cyberbullying
Caleb is known as the meanest kid in class. He likes to make fun of others for the littlest things. Every one seems to be afraid of him. One day in the locker room, you see Caleb push another student. The other student starts to cry. Caleb is a lot bigger than you. What should you do?
Notify an adult
Help the other student
Get other students (upstanders) to see and hear what's going on
Tell Caleb to STOP
True or False: If you erase something you sent electronically, it goes away
State the Golden Rule
Do Unto Others Like You Would Like to Be Treated