Recognizing Bulling
What are the 3 R's of Second Step?
(Hint: think of the posters in the hallways)
Recognize
Report
Refuse
If you are being bullying and you have told a teacher but it keeps happening, what should you do?
Report to that adult, or another adult, that the bullying is still happening.
When you refuse bullying, should you be aggressive or assertive?
Assertive
There are four requirements for a situation to be bullying. Name two of the four requirements.
Hurtful
Intentional
Happens over and over again
Does not stop even you ask them to stop
Who are three people that you could report to if you are being bullied?
Teacher
Ms. White or Mr. Glover
Mrs. Mattsen
Your family
Recess teachers
What does it mean to be assertive?
To not let something happen
To face the person and use a strong, respectful voice when telling them to stop
What are three of the four types of bullying?
Physical
Verbal
Cyber
Relational
What is one reason that someone might not report that they are being bullied or that someone else is being bullied?
They are afraid of the bully
They think others will say they are tattling or "snitching"
They think it will only get worse
They are worried that they might get bullied
What are some reasons a person might bully others?
They have been bullied before
They don't realize they are bullying others
They don't feel good about themselves
Bullying is unfair and one-sided. Give an example of a situation that is NOT bullying.
It is back and forth like arguing or fighting
Happens only once or twice
Stops when you ask them to stop
What is the difference between tattling and reporting?
Tattling is when you tell on someone for a small problem that you could handle yourself, or to get someone in trouble. Reporting is when you have a big problem, like bullying, and need an adult to help solve it.
There are both upstanders and negative bystanders. Give an example of how someone could be a negative bystander.
They join in
They laugh at what is happening
They do nothing
Is this an example of bullying? Why or why not.
While at recess, Mrs. Mattsen tells you that you are not allowed to play with her and her friends. You have told Mrs. Mattsen that it is not fair and she sees that it hurts your feelings, but still does not allow you to play. This happens at most recesses.
What are the Four Dubs of Reporting?
Who
What
Where
When
There are four ways in which upstanders can be powerful in helping to stop bullying. What are two of the four things an upstander can do?
(Hint: think of the Bystander Power posters in the hallway)
Report of help report the bullying
Stand up for someone and refuse the bullying
Be respectful and kind
Include everyone and help get the person away from the person who is bullying them