Effects of Bullying
What is the difference between conflict and bullying?
Bullying is repeated, on purpose to cause harm, and they do not stop when asked to. Conflict occurs between two people of equal power who can work it out on their own.
What should you do if you see a friend or peer being bullied?
Acceptable answers:
Try to stand up for them or tell an adult as soon as possible
What is an "I" statement?
"I feel ____ when you____"
Telling the person how you feel instead of accusing/labeling them
True or False: QMS used to be called Quaker's middle school.
False
What is the difference between a mean moment and bullying?
A mean moment occurs once, bullying is repeated and the bully does not stop when asked to
Is it hard to stand up to a bully?
Yes, it is very hard to stand up to a bully due to fear, intimidation, and power imbalances.
What does it mean to be empathetic?
You show you care about how a person feels, you put themselves in their shoes
True or False: Our principal Mr. Maguire used to be a student here at QMS.
True
Where do you think most bullying occurs?
Acceptable answers:
Social media, texting, recess, in the hallways, outside the school building
How would a person who is being bullied feel if you stood up for them?
Acceptable answers:
Relieved, comforted, accepted, happy, grateful, appreciative
True or False: Criticizing the way a person dresses is a way to show kindness
FALSE
What is our school mascot?
Hornet
How can being bullied affect the way someone performs in school?
Acceptable answers:
Grades can decline, difficult to focus, afraid to come to school, etc
What is the difference between TATTLING and TELLING?
Telling is to put an end to a harmful situation, tattling is to get a person in trouble
What does the term "kindness is a ripple effect" mean?
How many students are currently enrolled at QMS
748
What are some reasons someone may bully another person?
Acceptable answers:
They aren't happy with themself, They are trying to impress their peers/make them laugh, tearing someone else down makes them feel better about their own flaws, etc.
Is it possible to have a bully-free school?
YES
Name 2 ways we can help someone to feel included in school
Acceptable answers:
Invite them to play or sit with us, ask them to be your partner or in your group, say hello in the hallway, start a conversation with someone
What is Ms. Glaser's job title?
School Counselor