Is this bullying?
Recognize
Report
Refuse
Bystanders
100

Everyday, someone always makes fun of the way you talk and won't stop. Is this bullying?

Yes, this is bullying.  It is happening everyday, is one sided and you haven't been able to make it stop.

100

How do we recognize bullying? What clues do we use?

Bullying is when someone keeps being mean to someone else on purpose. Bullying usually happens over and over again, and the person it is happening to hasn't been able to make it stop. It is unfair and one-sided.

100

Name one person at home you can report bullying to.

Parents, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Caregivers

100

What does refuse mean?

Refuse means not to let something happen. You say no or make it stop.

100

What is a bystander?

A person sees or knows bullying is happening to someone else.

200

Someone grabs a book you're looking at without asking.  It is the first time this has happened. Is this bullying?

No, this is not bullying.  It is unexpected behavior, but it has only happened one time.

200

When someone is getting bullied, what are some feelings they might have?

Sad, mad, upset, angry, scared, confused, hurt, etc.

200

Name one person at school you can report bullying to.

Teachers, Principal, Counselor, Nurse

200

What kind of voice should you use when refusing bullying?

Strong and respectful

200

How can bystanders help stop bullying?

Recognizing bullying. Report or help report bullying. Refuse bullying. Be friendly to the person who is getting bullied. Including everyone. Being kind and respectful.

300

Some kids tell you every day that you can't sit at their table at lunch because they don't like what you eat. Is this bullying?

Yes, this is bullying.  It is happening everyday, it is one sided and you have not been able to make it stop.

300

True or false. An example of bullying is when someone keeps taking things that belong to you without asking.

True.

300

If you report bullying to an adult and the bullying continues, what should you do?

Keep reporting until the bullying stops.

300

What should your body look like when you refuse bullying?

Stand up straight and tall.  Look the person in the eyes.

300

How can bystanders make the bullying problem worse?

Do nothing. Join the bully. Laugh. Not report.

400

Someone bumps into you in the hallway by accident and you fall down.

No, this is not bullying.  It happened by accident, not on purpose.

400

What does one-sided mean?

When one person is doing something to someone else, but the other person is not doing it back to them.

400

What is the difference between reporting and tattling?

Reporting is to keep someone safe.  Tattling is to get someone in trouble.  
400

What can you say to refuse bullying?

Stop that's bullying! Tell the other person what you want them to do instead.

400

Every day at recess, Sally sees a group of kids tell Susie that she can't play tag because she runs too slow. Sally asks Susie, "Do you want to play with me?"

Is Sally helping stop bullying?

Yes. Sally is including Susie and being friendly to her.

500

You and a classmate are arguing about whose turn it is to be first in line. Is this bullying?

No, this is not bullying.  Arguments are two-sided.

500

True or False?  Bullying can be when someone leaves someone out on purpose over and over?

Yes.   Leaving someone out on purpose is form of bullying.

500

What can you say to an adult when you report bullying?

"I need to report bullying."

500

Pretend that you are being bullied everyday on the bus by someone who calls you names.   

Show us how you would refuse bullying.

Stand up, look the person in the eyes, say in a strong, respectful voice, "Stop! That's bullying.  Please stop calling me names!".

500

How does the person being bullied feel when someone uses their bystander power to help them?

Safe, relieved, supported, happy.