Feelings like anger and hurt...
Are bad, and you should be ashamed of them
Warn you that you have a conflict to solve
Should be kept to yourself
Are reasons for hurting other people
Warn you that you have a conflict to solve
Which of these statements is an I-message?
I feel like you are a loud mouth
I feel angry when you say I cheat
You slow-poke! I should kick you off the team!
I wish I had a robot
I feel angry when you say I cheat
Which of the following is cooperative?
Working together on a science project
Playing Monopoly
Entering an art contest
Trying to sell more magazines than a friend
Working together on a science project
Playing Monopoly
What should you do when other people disagree with your opinion?
Tell them they are wrong
Change your opinion to agree with theirs
Listen to their reasons and explain your reasons
Apologize for disagreeing
Listen to their reasons and explain your reasons
A conflict may be...
An argument
A fight
A disagreement
All of the above
All of the above
The way I see my side of the conflict is called my
Self-control
Remote control
Self-esteem
Point of view
Point of View
Which of the following is a communication roadblock?
Listening
Threatening
Asking Questions
Using I-messages
Threatening
Which of the following statements is true?
There is only one right way to handle conflict
Conflicts are bad, and people should not have them
People can handle conflicts in good and bad ways
Every conflict has a winner and a loser
People can handle conflicts in good and bad ways
Which feeling(s) should you use I-messages for?
Any feeling
Anger
Happiness
None
Any feeling
"Seeing both sides" in a conflict means that you
Have perfect eyesight
Understand how the other person sees the problem
Can see both of the other people who are fighting
Agree with the other person
Understand how the other person sees the problem
Which of these sentences is an example of exaggerating?
You spilled something on my shirt
Did you spill something on my shirt
I feel angry when you spill something on my shirt
You totally ruined my best shirt, and I'll never be able to get another one
You totally ruined my best shirt, and I'll never be able to get another one
Bullying is
Threatening, hurting, or scaring other people
Being bigger and stronger than other people
Staying calm, standing tall, and speaking up
Not really a serious problem
Threatening, hurting, or scaring other people
When you have a decision to make, you should...
Ask your friends what to do
Stop and think about your choices and their consequences
Do the first thing you think of
Say no
Stop and think about your choices and their consequences
Why should people express their feelings?
So other people will understand
To help them keep their self-control
To build their self-esteem
All of the above
All of the above
To get from a conflict to a solution, start by...
Agreeing to travel together to solve the problem
Telling the other person why he or she is wrong
Competing with each other
Agreeing to disagree
Agreeing to travel together to solve the problem
When a conflict escalates...
There is nothing you can do about it
It gets worse
It gets calm
It is easier to solve
It gets worse
What is the name of the company Ms.L works for?
CADEkids
Being responsible for your own feelings and actions is
Being responsible for your own feelings and actions is
Being responsible for your own feelings and actions is
Self-control
Remote control
Self-esteem
Point of view
Remote control
Self-esteem
Point of view
Remote control
Self-esteem
Point of view
Self-control
To solve a conflict well, you need to be able to...
Think of many different ideas
Be in the fastest reading group
Remember a lot of hard rules
Be good at math
Think of many different ideas
Which of the following are ways to show respect for other people?
Listening to others without interrupting
Using their names
Asking them to tell their point of view
All of the above
Which of these statements would de-escalate a conflict?
You never listen to anything I say
You did this on purpose
Joey, we can work this out
I'm going to tell on you
Joey, we can work this out
What is Ms.L's favorite color?
PINK