Friend, Acquaintance
or Stranger
or Stranger
Grocery store worker
Stranger
Car Crash
Size: Big
Reaction: Call the police/9-1-1
George is not looking at Susie while he is talking to her.
What does Susie think and feel?
Emotion: Hurt, Upset, Confused
Think: Is he distracted? Am I not important enough? Is he listening to me?
Name some ways you stay focused in class/work.
Turn off electronics, put them at a different table, sit up at my desk and face forward, use them at breaks, be mindful of what I need to do.
How would you greet your boss in the morning?
Good morning, Hello, How are you?
Boss
Acquaintance
You can not find the zoom link for class.
Size: small/medium
Reaction: Call a friend, email your teacher, check the google classroom page.
Max sends Pam a text: "WHERE ARE YOU?"
What does Pam think and feel?
Emotion: Hurt, Confused, Shocked
Think: Why is he yelling at me?
What would you use to wish your friend a happy birthday?
Phone, in person, email, social media
Phone, person, social media
Ms. Ursyla is speaking too fast and you did not hear what she said.
Can you slow down, please?
Can you repeat that?
I do not understand.
Ms. Mercedes, Ms. Jessie, Ms. Katy, Ms. Ann, Ms. Ursyla
Acquaintances
Your friend fell and broke their leg.
Size: Big
Reaction: Call 9-1-1, contact family, make sure they are okay.
Cheryl does not tell her boss that she is sick and not going to work today.
What does her boss think and feel?
Emotion: Confused, Mad, Worried
Think: Where is she? Does she care about work? Did something happen to her?
What would you use to check your work schedule?
Phone, Email, In person, Facebook, Snapchat
Phone, email, person
You order food at In-n-Out. They charged you too much for your meal.
Excuse me, (show receipt)
I think you charged me too much for my food.
A person you spend time with often and share the same interests.
Friend
The waiter at a restaurant brings you the wrong food.
Size: Medium
Reaction: Ask the waiter for help, explain what you ordered.
Rick and Rob are having a conversation. Rick talks 90% of the turns and does not let Rob talk.
How does Rob feel and what does he think?
Emotion: Annoyed, Upset, Confused
Think: He is not letting me talk, I do not want to keep talking with him.
What would you use to ask someone on a date?
Person, phone, text
You and your friend are in the store. Your friend wants you to steal two shirts for him.
No, I can not do that.
It is not right to steal.
Sorry, I do not feel comfortable doing that.
People you talk to at the dog park.
Acquaintances
You stub your toe and you are very angry.
Size: small
Reaction: Take a break, walk around, take some breaths, check to see if you need a band-aid
Mary and Tia are friends. Tia tried to make plans with Mary. Mary keeps saying that she is busy. Mary said that "She has work", "She is tired", "She has to go grocery shopping" and can not hang out.
How does Tia feel? What is Mary thinking?
Tia Emotion: Hurt, Sad, Confused, Bummed out
Mary thinking: I do not want to hang out.
What would you use to thank your coworker for their help
Person, email, phone call.
Your friend lied to you and you found out.
I feel hurt when you lie to me because friends tell the truth.