Emotions & Feelings
Self-Criticism
Compassionate Coping
Forms & Functions of Self-Criticism
Anger, Anxiety, & Sadness
100

This is the feeling you get when something doesn’t go as planned, and you feel like things are unfair.

What is anger?

100

This is when you speak negatively about yourself or focus on your flaws.
 

What is self-criticism?

100

This is an approach that involves treating yourself with kindness, especially during tough times.
 

What is self-compassion?

100

This form of self-criticism involves comparing yourself to others and feeling inadequate.
 

What is social comparison?

100

This form of self-criticism involves comparing yourself to others and feeling inadequate.
 

What is social comparison?

200

This emotion is often felt when facing something uncertain or worrying, like before a big test.
 

What is anxiety?

200

A common form of self-criticism might be thinking "I’m not good enough" or "I always mess things up."
 
 

What are negative thoughts or self-judgment?

200

You can use this to help manage anxiety and sadness by focusing on your breath and being present in the moment.
 

What is mindfulness?

200

This type of self-criticism might look like beating yourself up over small mistakes, even when they're not that big of a deal.
 

What is perfectionism or overgeneralization?

200

This type of self-criticism might look like beating yourself up over small mistakes, even when they're not that big of a deal.
 

What is perfectionism or overgeneralization?

300

You might feel this emotion when you lose something important to you or face disappointment.

What is sadness?

300

This is the key reason people criticize themselves, often to push themselves to do better, but it can lead to stress.

What is the desire for perfection or high standards?

300

When you're feeling angry, this technique can help you calm down by taking a moment to acknowledge and accept your feelings.
 

What is self-soothing or self-care?

300

Self-criticism serves this purpose, even though it can be harmful: it pushes you to improve or do better in areas you care about.
 

What is motivation or self-improvement?

300

Self-criticism serves this purpose, even though it can be harmful: it pushes you to improve or do better in areas you care about.
 

What is motivation or self-improvement?

400

This is a physiological response that can come with anger, often seen in things like increased heart rate or tense muscles.

What is the fight-flight-freeze response?

400

This form of self-criticism involves making harsh judgments about yourself based on minor mistakes, like thinking, "I’m a failure" after one mistake.
 

What is overgeneralization?

400

This technique involves imagining a peaceful place, or visualizing a safe space where you can relax and calm your emotions.
 

What is guided imagery or visualization?

400

This form of self-criticism often involves perfectionism, where a person believes that anything less than perfect is a failure.
 

What is all-or-nothing thinking?

400

This form of self-criticism often involves perfectionism, where a person believes that anything less than perfect is a failure.
 

What is all-or-nothing thinking?

500

This emotion can sometimes be experienced when facing overwhelming stress, uncertainty, or feeling disconnected from others.

What is loneliness?

500

This is the form of self-criticism that may cause a person to constantly compare themselves to others and feel like they don't measure up.

What is social comparison?

500

When you're upset, this coping method encourages you to talk to yourself as if you were talking to a close friend, offering understanding and support.
 

What is compassionate self-talk?

500

This type of self-criticism focuses on internalizing negative messages from others or society, making you feel like you are inherently flawed.
 

What is internalized criticism or negative self-beliefs?

500
  • This type of self-criticism focuses on internalizing negative messages from others or society, making you feel like you are inherently flawed.

What is internalized criticism or negative self-beliefs?