Stages of Change
Boundaries and Trauma
Sound House
Variety
About Me
100

What are the stages of change?

Pre-Contemplation

Contemplation

Preparation

Action

Maintenance 

Relapse

100

What are the 4 protective strategies for trauma and boundaries?

Withdrawal

Fight response

Collapse or Freeze

Rigidity

100

What is the sound house a metaphor for?

Healthy and stable relationships

100

What is interoception?

Awareness of internal body states

100

What are my favorite colors?

Come on....this is a repeat question....

200

What is the contemplation stage of change characterized by?

Being aware of the problem, but not yet ready to make a change

200

What group of muscles help support our sense of boundaries?

Front thigh muscles

200

What are the walls of our sound house?

Trust and commitment

200

Give me an example of the cognitive distortion mind reading

Pop off queen

200

What is one of my favorite winter hobbies?

Snowboarding

300

What does SMART stand for?

Specific

Measurable

Attainable

Realistic

Timely

300

Where do territorial boundaries come from?

Our survival or reptilian brain

300

What is described as communicating needs for connection with one another?

Turning towards instead of away

300

What is urge surfing?

a mindfulness-based strategy to manage cravings and/or urges without actually acting on them.

300

What sport did I do growing up?

Ballet
400

Give me an example of a SMART goal around drinking caffeine

The limit does not exist with caffeine 

400

How does trauma affect social boundaries for those not directly involved in the trauma?

Weaken connection, trust, and group stability

400

What are love maps?

Getting to know one another and understanding each other's worlds

400

What does ACT stand for?

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

400

What will I do when I get home from work today?

Cuddle my cats

500

What are some practical strategies to do in the contemplation stage of change?

  •  Make a pros and cons list - How Is this behavior serving you?
  •  Identify how this behavior aligns or does not align with your values
  •  Picture yourself In a year - what will It look like If I change or do not change?
500

What muscles are connected to personal boundaries?

Deltoids

500

What would happen to your sound house if you started to create shared dreams before you know how to manage conflict?

Girl, that thing would fall 

500

What are the 3 types of trauma?

Acute

Chronic

Complex

500

Am I a coffee or tea person?

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