All relationships cycle back and forth between generative spirals toward growth and development and degenerative spirals toward deterioration and dissolution as periods of stability break down and change
What is Constructing relational problems
100
The deception protects or promotes the deceiver’s self-concept
What is Egoism
100
Violates the betrayed person’s expectations, and may even do so by being the truth.
What is Betrayal
100
Kind of uncoupling or disengaging begins as joint endeavors that have been described by the partners in “we” and “our” terms become more “I” or “my” activities.
What is Differentiating
100
one person experiences dissatisfaction and thinks about the advantages and disadvantages of staying in or leaving the relationship.
What is Intrapsychic phase
200
A complex communication pattern in which at least one participant is misled by a false appearance or statement, lies, fictions, playings, crimes, and masks.
What is Deception
200
The motive is to protect the self esteem, safety, and general well-being of the other person(s)
What is Benevolence
200
When communication exhibits imbalances in power and a concern for self at the expense of another, the patterns include… range of aggression...
What is Aggression
200
When a partner work to limit the quality and quantity of their contact.
What is Circumscribing
200
Individuals indicate, directly or indirectly, that things are not working out and usually offer explanations in order to save face.
What is Social phase
300
A joint action, the outcome of a collaboration between or among communicators from very direct lies to “softer,” more indirect actions, such as exaggerations and false implications.
What is Motives for Deception
300
Intentionally trying to hurt others… a frequent motive for deception.
What is Malevolence
300
Shows itself in verbal and nonverbal communication that embodies excessive dependence on the relationship for enhancing one’s self worth
What is Codependence
300
Remaining motionless or inactive.
What is Stagnating
300
physically cutting contact with the other person and going through whatever mourning or grief processes seems necessary.
What is Grave-dressing phase
400
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What is AIDS
400
Using deception as a means to stymie, damage, or terminate the relationship.
What is Regress
400
a tendency to control one’s partner, an exaggerated sense of responsibility for the partner, denial through externalization of blame for the partner's shortcomings, and sense of excitement and challenge in the relationship.
What is Caretaking
400
cutting the threads that have held the partners together
What is Terminating
400
both person involved consider ending the relationship, these discussions can lead to negotiating changes, repairing relational transgressions, and reconciling, or the partners can continue with the decision to end the relationship.
What is Dyadic phase
500
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Who is Brian
500
The deceiver wants to improve, enhance, escalate, or repair the relationship with the other person.
What is Utility
500
occurs with exclusiveness, an exaggerated sense of permanence of the relationship, exaggerated reliance on the partner for a sense of self worth, and jealousy
What is Enmeshment
500
When the partners design ways to prevent face-to-face or, in some cases, even voice-to-voice or internet contact
What is Avoiding
500
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