Conversations
True or false: Words are the only thing that matters when it comes to conversations
False! Body language and facial expressions are also very important and can convey more of what you are actually thinking or feeling
True or False: There are steps that need to be taken before going and physically joining a group.
True
True or False: It is best to be stiff like a robot when communicating with others.
False
True or False: the face is not an important part of communiation.
False
True or False: eye contact is one of the most basic social skills for letting other people know you're paying attention to them.
True
what is an appropriate distance to stand away from someone when having a conversation?
An arms length away
True or False: Groups don't go to people, people join groups.
True!
Name one thing you can do to relax your body
Dance!
other: acting lessons, meditation/yoga, deep breaths, sensory support/OT
What kind of facial expressions might someone make if they are confused or uncomfortable?
eyebrows furrowed, not smiling, glancing sideways, etc.
True or False: Good eye contact means staring directly in the other person's eyes without blinking or looking away at all.
False! It is normal to glance away, blink, and observe their body language too.
What does it mean to be "in the loop?"
Someone has told you something/shared something with you, you know what the group is doing/talking about
Scenario: You see a friend from your class standing with 3 people you don't recognize. Your friend looks at you, waves, and smiles. Is it okay to walk over and try to join the group?
Yes! You know someone in the group and their facial expression and body language was welcoming you to join them. Your friend can now introduce you to the people you don't know!
Explain what it means to have your body "in the group"
facing towards them, relaxed posture, being mindful of your facial expressions and body language
Why are facial expressions important?
Because they help people see that we are relating and responding to how they are feeling.
We watch peoples eyes, face, and body while they talk so that we can figure out exactly what they are _______?
saying
Why is knowing locations of groups important?
It helps make it easier to find them and it helps the members of the group know where people in their group are hanging out.
How are groups, or 'cliques', usually defined?
By a hobby, personality type, or preestablished friendship group (friends since they were kids, family, etc.)
Show us body language that is open, welcoming, and comfortable
Show us body language that is cold, not welcoming, and uncomfortable
relaxed shoulders, open arm posture, sitting up, etc.
slumped over, crossed arms, looking away, etc.
What is a flat facial expression?
How can you show someone that you are thinking about them and what they are saying?
Thinking about them with your eyes - looking at them, nodding, commenting on what they are saying when appropriate
Name one group you would like to be a part of and one way you could begin to join that group
club at school? online gaming group? church group?
I could...
Our bodies and face convey __% of our message
93% - a majority of what we say is conveyed through our facial expressions and body language
What are good facial expressions?
Being able to show your feelings or emotions through your face
Bonus question: Fill in and explain this expression
"the eyes are windows to the ___"
soul; it means someone's eyes can show us their inner emotions, thoughts, and attitudes