Dos and Don'ts
Before Abuse Starts
Help A Friend
100
What 3 things can you do to show a friend that you respect them?
What is ask, listen, and DON'T JUDGE!
100
Who is more likely to be disrespectful? Someone who feels strong inside or someone who needs to control others to feel strong.
What is someone who needs to control others to feel strong.
100
Name two things you could say to a friend who is disrespectful?
What is I don't like you are disrespectful. That hurts my feelings. Express concerns about the behavior, like "Why have you changed."
200
True or False? It's okay if your boy/girl friend calls you stupid, as long as he/she never hits you.
What is FALSE! It is disrespectful to call someone stupid. Healthy relationships are about respect.
200
True or False? It is disrespectful when a friend always acts like they are right and you are wrong?
What is TRUE. It is disrespectful to act like you are always right and ignore the other person's idea. Healthy relationships have open communication.
200
Name three things you could say or do for a friend in a disrespectful relationship?
What is I'm worried. Can I help? You should learn more. Call a hotline for advice.
300
What are three signs of disrespect?
What is bossing around, gossiping, making threats, insults, manipulation.
300
Name two things you can do to make sure you have a respectful relationship?
What is good communication skills, choose another partner who treats you with respect, treat your partner with respect.
300
Your friend makes the team and you don't--how do you respond?
What is congratulate them and be supportive!
400
Your boy/girl friend is staring at another boy/girl, and it is making you jealous. How do you handle the situation respectfully?
What is tell him or her how it makes you feel and talk about it!
400
Name two ways you can tell others about the importance of choosing respect.
What is share materials, tell them about www.chooserespect.org, share what you learned today, tell your friends how important respect is to you and why, choose friends and partners who respect you.
400
Where can you or a friend go for help if you are in an unhealthy relationship?
What is Talk to your parents, teacher, coach, minister, or other supportive adult, call the hotline, go to www.chooserespect.com or other websites.