Dos and Don'ts
Prevention
Help a Friend
100
What 3 things can you do to show your friend that you respect them?
Ask Listen Don’t judge
100
Who is more likely to be disrespectful? Someone who feels strong inside or someone who needs to control others to feel strong?
Someone who need to control others to feel strong.
100
Name 2 things you could say to a friend who was disrespectful.
I don’t like that you are disrepectful. That hurts my feelings. Express concerns about the behavior, like “Why have you changed?”
200
True or False It’s okay if your boy/girl friend calls you stupid, as long as he/she never hits you.
FALSE It is disrespectful to call someone stupid. Healthy relationships are about respect.
200
True or False It is disrespectful when a friend always acts like they are right and you are wrong.
TRUE It is disrespectful to act like you are always right, and ignore the other person’s ideas. Healthy relationships have open communication.
200
Name 3 things you could say or do for a friend in a disrespectful relationship.
I’m worried. Can I help? You should learn more. Call a hotline for advice.
300
What are 3 signs of disrespect?
Bossing around Gossiping Making threats Insults Manipulation
300
Name 2 things you can do to make sure you have a respectful relationship?
Good communication skills Choose a partner who treats you with respect Treat your partner with respect
300
Your friend makes the soccer team and you don’t—how do you respond?
Congratulate them and be supportive!
400
Your boy/girl friend is staring at another girl/boy, and it is making you jealous. How do you handle the situation respectfully?
Tell him/her how it makes you feel and talk about it.
400
Name 2 ways you can tell others about the importance of choosing respect.
Share materials, tell them about www.chooserespect.org, share what you learned today, tell your friends how important respect is to you and why, choose friends and partners who respect you.
400
Where can you or a friend go for help if you are in an unhealthy relationship?
Talk to your parents, teacher, coach, minister, or other supportive adult; call the hotline, go to www.chooserespect.com or other websites.