The Circle
Feelings
What Kids Need
When Parents Get Upset
Being a Good Parent
100

Kids go out and then come back for comfort.

What is the Circle of Security?

100

Kids show their feelings mostly through this.

What is behavior?

100

Kids need to feel safe trying new things.

What is a secure base?

100

Sometime children's behavior makes parents feel nervous or stressed.  This is....

What is normal?

100

Saying and showing your kid "I'm here" helps them feel this.

What is secure?

200

When kids go out and try something new, they are doing this.

What is exploring?

200

When a child cries, they often want this.

What is comfort or connection?

200

Kids need a place to return when they are upset.

What is a safe haven?

200

The first thing to handling your triggers is to do this.

What is to notice it?

200

Comforting kids does this for their feelings?

What is helps them calm down?

300

When kids need hugs or reassurance, they need this.

What is comfort?

300

When a child is wild or silly sometimes they need this.

What is staying calm?

300

When parents stay calm, kids feel this.

What is safe?

300

Taking deep breaths helps you do this before reacting.

What is pause?

300

It's ok for parents to do this as long as they repair.

What is make a mistake?

400

Parents help kids explore by doing this (watching and supporting).

What is keeping an eye on them?

400

The best way to understand your child's behavior is to do this.

What is to be curious?

400

Kids need parents who try their best, not the parents who are this.

What is perfect?

400

When parents calm down and repair after a mistake the relationship becomes this.

What is stronger?
400

The best way to build a strong relationship with your child is to do this every day.

What is connect with your child?