General
Name one of the three Ts
Talk
Touch
Trust
Name one group of people that fall into the red circle (there are three)
Community Helpers
Healthcare/Medical Workers
Strangers
What group of people are in the orange circle?
Children/Kids/Youth
Name one app that is considered cyberspace
THE INTERNET
TikTok
SnapChat
Discord
(AND MORE!)
Who is Mark?
Sophia's boyfriend.
Who is at the center of all the circles?
Me/You (Purple Circle- The Individual)
Explain what trust looks like for strangers
NONE- we don't know them
What does talk look like for orange circle?
You can give SHORT responses if a children starts conversation with you. We are NOT starting conversations with kids. May smile, wave, or nod.
True or false: you should meet up with people you met on the internet
FALSE! We don't know if people are who they claim to be online. NEVER meet up with someone from online, this is dangerous behavior.
Explain the difference between a friend and a sweetheart.
sweetheart- Someone who you have romantic feelings for.
friend- the feelings are platonic (friends only), not romantic
Define what the body is
Everything from the top of your head to the tips of the toes
Give an example of a community helper
teacher, cashier, delivery driver, plumber etc.
Explain what a peer or acquaintance is
Someone who you may know from a class or an activity. That is the common bond. You don't know them very well, you don't trust them, don't talk much aside from small talk.
You've been sending DMs on Instagram with someone who says they've seen you at school. They ask for your phone number and you give it to them. Expected or Unexpected behavior?
UNEXPECTED! DO not share your phone number or personal information to people online.
Explain how Mark and Sophia's relationship changed over time.
Mark and Sophia started out as strangers. They bumped into each other near their lockers, and became orange circle. Then they saw each other more and became acquaintances. A mutual friend introduced them which moved them to green circle. Then they started hanging out and realized they liked each other as more than friends as time went on. They started to date, became boyfriend/girlfriend and in each other's blue sweetheart circle.
Explain why we learn about circles.
Because it teachers us about BOUNDARIES with different types of relationships
Explain what touch looks like for healthcare workers
Business touch ONLY
Ex: Dentist touches your mouth/face, doctor may touch your body (including private areas)
Low-stakes, uncontroversial topics that you can talk about with nearly anyone
Ex: weather, how your day is going, pets, movies/tv
Name one of the rules for staying safe online.
Only interact with close friends and family (blue and green circles)
Never share personal information or phone number
Be careful with pictures and comments- they can last forever
Never post or share nude pictures
Never meet internet strangers
Treat everyone with respect, don’t bully
Explain what consent is and why it is important for romantic touch.
Consent or consensual means two people agreeing.
When it comes to romantic touch, both people must agree that they want to. It is important to remember that even in romantic relationships, consent can change. We need to keep checking in to make sure it's okay!
Name two of the deciding factor questions to figure out what circle someone should be in?
HOW LONG have I know this person?
HOW OFTEN do I see them?
HOW MANY common bonds do I have with them?
HOW WELL do I know them?
HOW SAFE am I with this person?
Explain the difference between a stranger and a community helper.
A stranger is someone you don't know at all, a community helper is someone you interact with for a purpose in the community (ex: teacher, cashier, delivery driver etc.)
Give an example of how you would start small talk with someone!
Hot day today, huh? Did you see it going to snow this weekend? (Weather)
See any good movies recently? (Movies/TV/Shows)
How's your day today? (Surface level question)
AND MORE!
Explain why it is important to be careful about what you post online or email.
Because posts, comments, emails and pictures can last forever, even if you delete them!
Give three examples of romantic touch we saw between Sophia and Mark.
Kissing
Hugging
Holding hands
Leaning on each other/being physically close to each other (when they were watching movie on the couch)