Letting Go of Resentments
De-Escalation
Historical Events: 1945
Isolation and Perspective
200

The primary problem with resentment.

It is something we hold within ourselves, impacting us more than the offender.

200

What is a common benefit an individual might derive from expressing anger?

Gaining attention or control

200

In the United Kingdom, Princess Elizabeth, joins the ATS as a what?

truck driver and mechanic

200

What is a significant danger of isolation for someone in recovery?

It significantly increases the likelihood of relapse.

400

If confronting an issue head-on feels overwhelming, what is a common outcome regarding resentment?

 It makes it easier to sit in resentment than to do the work required to mend the relationship.

400

Before attempting to de-escalate another person's anger, what is a crucial first step for the helper?

Identify and manage their own emotional state.

400

Upon the death of President Franklin D. Roosevelt at the Little White House in Warm Springs, Georgia of an intracerebral hemorrhage, who became the 33rd president of the USA?

Harry S. Truman

400

What is meant by 'addictive thinking' in the context of recovery?

Distorted thought patterns that justify substance use and undermine sobriety.

600

When people feel like 'letting go makes you feel like you’ve "lost"', what specific battle might they perceive they are surrendering?

A battle where the other person still needs to 'pay' or be punished.

600

When acknowledging an angry person's emotion, what might a helper say?

"You sound really upset right now."

600

The Battle of Ramree Island, also known as Operation Matador results in the death of nearly 1000 Japanese soldiers, to what hazard?

Salt-Water Crocodiles

600

How does understanding one's own perspective contribute to recovery?

It helps in identifying personal triggers and developing self-compassion.

800

How can holding onto resentment provide a false sense of 'power and control'?

By maintaining a psychological advantage or protecting oneself from further harm.

800

When attempting to de-escalate anger, what percentage of truth, if any, is often present in an angry person's statements?

2%

800

April 30th 1945 marks one of the most significant events of WWII. What happened?

Hitler commits suicide.

800

Which cognitive distortion involves seeing situations in absolute terms, with no middle ground?

All-or-Nothing Thinking

1000

Long-term studies on emotional well-being have indicated that individuals who harbor consistent anger and hostility often experience what impact over time?

Decline in cognitive function.

1000

What is a sincere apology in a de-escalation context?

 Acknowledging something unjust occurred in the situation

1000

United States Boeing B-29 Superfortress Enola Gay drops a uranium-235 atomic bomb, codenamed "_______ _______" , on the Japanese city of Hiroshima.

"Little Boy"

1000

What does 'emotional reasoning' mean in the context of addictive thinking?

Believing something is true because you feel it strongly, despite evidence.