Relationships
Health relationships
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100

Your new friend gets angry when you talk to your family. Is this healthy or unhealthy? Why?

Unhealthy, they are trying to control and possibly isolate you

100

What are characteristics of a healthy relationship?

Both people benefit and feel comfortable. Everyone is safe and honest. Boundaries are honored. 

200

Your partner/friend encourages you to pursue your dreams. What type of relationship is this? Healthy or unhealthy? Why?

Healthy because your friend/partner supports you and encourages you

200

True or False: In healthy relationships, compromise and conflict resolution are important. Why or why not?

True. 

200

True or False: f you are codependent, you might feel like self-care is selfish. Why or why not?

True. 

300

Can you name at least four different types of abuse?

Mental/emotional, financial, sexual, cyber, physical, verbal

300
Healthy relationships tend to use which type of communication? Aggressive, passive, or assertive?

Assertive. Now give an example of an assertive statement. 

300

You can always tell when your in an unhealthy relationship, especially early on. 

False. Sometimes it's really hard to tell. 

400

True or False: You’re never responsible for someone else’s behavior. 

True. You are only responsible for your own words and actions. 

400
True or false: Codependency can only happen in romantic relationships. 
False. Family members, friends, and romantic partners can all be codependent. 
400

What are some characteristics of an unhealthy relationship?

Dependency, Jealousy, Control, selfishness, abuse, dishonesty, name calling

500

How can you help a friend that is being abused in a relationship?

Believe their story, listen if they need someone to talk to, urge them to speak to a counselor and point them to resources.

500

True or False: Codependent people feel like they "need to be needed."

True

500

List 3 reasons someone would stay in an unhealthy/codependent relationship:

  • Financial
  • Nowhere to live
  • No outside emotional support
  • Fear of retribution by the abuser
  • They take the blame for the abuse
  • They deny, minimize, rationalize the abuse
  • Low self-esteem and confidence
  • They love the abuser
  • Shame
  • They are family and can't leave (ie. stuck living at home)