Cognitive Distortions Definitions 1
Cognitive Distortions Definition 2
Cognitive Distortions Examples
Self Talk Examples
Thought-Feeling-Behaviors
100

Magnification

Making bad things seem bigger than they are

Ex. “I made one mistake, and now everything is ruined.”

100

Minimization

Making good things seem smaller than they are

Ex. “My progress doesn't really count.”

100

Alex forgot to sign out of his computer during his first week at work. His boss reminds him that this is important. Alex begins to think, “I always mess everything up; no matter how hard I try, I will always make a mistake.”

This is an example of...

Overgeneralization

100

After making a mistake at work, Alex thinks, “I’m so stupid. I can never do anything right.”

This is an example of...

A. Negative Self Talk

B. Balanced Self Talk

C. Positive Self Talk

Negative Self Talk

100

Sam thinks, “My friend didn't text me back because they don't like me.” Sam feels hurt and rejected and decides to stop talking to their friend.

What is the thought?

“My friend didn't text me back because they don't like me.”


200

Fortune Telling

Predicting that a situation will have a negative outcome despite lacking evidence to support that belief

Ex. “This relationship will definitely end.”

200

Catashtrophizing

Assuming the worst possible outcome will happen

Ex. “They are upset with me; our relationship is ruined.”

200

Maria sends her friend a text message, but her friend doesn't respond for several hours. Maria thinks, “She must be mad at me.”

This is an example of... 

Mind Reading

200

Maria is nervous about starting a new program. She tells herself, “This is new and uncomfortable, but I can take it one step at a time.”

This is an example of...

A. Negative Self Talk

B. Balanced Self Talk

C. Positive Self Talk

Balanced Self Talk

200

Jordan thinks, “I made a mistake at work, and my boss is going to be angry.” Jordan feels anxious and avoids talking to their boss.

What is the feeling?

Anxiety

300

Mind Reading

Assuming you know what others are thinking or feeling without clear evidence

Ex. “They don't want me around.”

300

Disqualifying the positive

Ignoring or minimizing the positive experiences while only focusing on the negative ones

Ex. "I handled that situation well, but anyone could have done it.”

300

James has been doing well in his recovery for several weeks. When someone compliments his progress, he says, “It doesn't really count. I've only been doing well because things have been easy lately.”

This is an example of...

Disqualifying the positive

300

James finishes a difficult task and tells himself, “I worked hard, and I should be proud of myself for not giving up.”

This is an example of...

A. Negative Self Talk

B. Balanced Self Talk

C. Positive Self Talk

Postive Self Talk

300

Taylor thinks, “Nobody cares about me.” Taylor feels lonely and begins to isolate from other people.

What is the behaviour?

Isolating from other people

400

Personalization

Taking responsibility for things you didn't control

Ex. “My family is arguing because of me.”

400

All or nothing thinking

Viewing a situation in extreme, absolute terms rather than recognizing shades of grey

"Always, "Never", "Every"

Ex. “If I can't do it perfectly, there is no point in trying.”

400

Sarah's partner gets into an argument with their family. Sarah thinks, “This is my fault. If I had been there, I could have prevented the argument.”


This is an example of...

Personilzation

400

After missing an appointment, Taylor thinks, “I messed up today, but one mistake doesn't mean I'm a failure. I can figure out what went wrong and do better next time.”

This is an example of...

A. Negative Self Talk

B. Balanced Self Talk

C. Positive Self Talk

Balanced Self Talk

400

Alex has a difficult day in recovery and thinks, “I've ruined everything. I'm never going to change.” Alex feels hopeless and ashamed, then isolates and stops reaching out for support.

Which part of the cycle could Alex challenge first to help change the pattern?

A. The situation
B. The thought
C. The feeling
D. The past

The Thought

500

Overgeneralization

Taking one event and treating it as a rule

Ex. “Someone betrayed me, so nobody can be trusted.”

500

Magical Thinking

Believing your thoughts or unrelated actions caused an event

Ex. “If I don't do this particular thing, something bad will happen.”

500

Jessica has been working hard on her recovery but has one difficult day. She thinks, “I've ruined all my progress. If I were really serious about recovery, I wouldn't have struggled today.”

This is an example of...

All or nothing thinking

500

Jordan has been struggling with recovery and thinks, “Nothing is going to change. I'm always going to be like this, so why even bother trying?”

This is an example of...

A. Negative Self Talk

B. Balanced Self Talk

C. Positive Self Talk

Negative Self Talk

500

Chris receives criticism from a family member. Chris thinks, “They think I'm a failure.” Chris feels ashamed and angry and leaves the room instead of talking about what happened.

What is the sequence?


Thought: “They think I'm a failure.” → Feeling: Shame/anger → Behaviour: Leaves the room