This is when we believe the acts will influence unrelated situations.
What is Magical Thinking
They broke up with me last night. Now I'll never meet anyone.
What is All-or-Nothing Thinking OR What is Overgeneralization
I asked my friend to get coffee with me and they said they were busy. They must not want to be my friend anymore.
What is Jumping to Conclusions
This is when we see a single negative event as a part of a never-ending streak of failure. We use words like "always," "never," "everybody".
What is Overgeneralization or All or Nothing Thinking
She did not say anything about my new haircut. She must think it is ugly!
What is Mind Reading
Every interaction I have is terrible.
What is Overgeneralizing or All or Nothing Thinking
I should give my friend money because she asked me for it.
Examples: "I wish I could loan her money but I cannot afford it." "I want to give my friend money because it makes me feel good and I have enough to spare."
He is always upset. He would be fine if I did more to help him.
What is personalization
I should be further along in my recovery.
What are "Should" statements.
I know they complimented me on my new outfit but they were just being nice.
What is Disqualifying the Positive OR What is Minimization
I feel like I am a bad partner, therefore I must be a bad partner.
What is Emotional Reasoning
This is when we assume that our emotions reflect the way things really are.
What is Emotional Reasoning
I am mentally ill and cannot contribute anything to anyone.
Reframe! I am living with a mental illness and I have a lot to offer to this world. Mental illness does not define who I am as a person.
"I got a B on an exam. This proves how inferior I am." "I got an A on an exam. It doesn't mean I'm smart."
What is Magnification or Minimization.
I have had a headache for two days. I must be really sick.
"Headaches are common and happen occasionally. There is no need to worry." "If my headache doesn't go away in a day I will make an appointment with my PCP to check it out." "I am under a lot of stress and my body is probably telling me I need to take it easy."