This is when we apply unfair definitions that are probably wrong or more likely hurtful on ourselves and others. Calling ourselves names.
What is Labeling
"She broke up with me last night. I'll never be in a relationship again."
What is All-or-Nothing Thinking OR What is Overgeneralization
"I will never be happy"
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All or Nothing Thinking / Overgeneralization
The full name for CBT.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
This is when we see a single negative event as a part of a never-ending streak of failure. We use words like "always," "never," "everybody". It will keep happening over and over again.
What is Overgeneralization
She did not say anything about my new haircut. She thinks it is ugly!
What is Mind Reading
I should give my friend money because he asked me for it.
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Should Statements
Define a thought.
Words or pictures that go through our mind. We experience them in our head. Usually phrases.
This is when we see ourselves as the cause of negative events that we are not responsible for. We blame oursleves.
What is Personalization
He didn't say Hi to me this morning so he must be mad at me for something I did.
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Mind Reading
Define an emotion
Physical or emotional sensations in our bodies. Felt all throughout our bodies. Often feelings are one word, but multiple can be felt at a time.
This is when we conclude that someone is acting negatively towards us without checking it out or seeking other evidence. We assume what they are thinking.
What is Mind Reading
You tell yourself that things should be the way you hoped or expected them to be.
What are Should Statements?
I know she complimented me on my new outfit but she was just being nice.
What is Disqualifying the Positive
I know I am going to have a panic attack when I go the party tomorrow so I am just going to cancel and not go.
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Fortune Telling
Define a behavior.
External physical actions we take to respond.
This is when we pick out one negative detail in a situation and dwell on it exclusively.
What is Mental Filter
I am five minutes late to work which means my boss will be mad at me and I am going to get fired.
What is Magnification.
I have had a headache for two days. I must have a brain tumor.
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Magnification
Name of the skill we use when we change a negative thought to a positive thought.
What is reframe.