Distortions
Cognitive Triangle
Coping Skills
Feelings and Emotions
Challenging Thoughts
100

What is it called when you see things as all good or bad, with no middle ground?

What is:
All-or-nothing (or black-and-white) thinking

100

What three components make up the cognitive triangle?

What is:

Thoughts, feelings, behaviors

100

Name your favorite coping skill.

What is:
deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, 5 senses technique, mindfulness, etc.

100

Name one basic emotion.

What is:
Happy, sad, angry, scared

100

Why can't we believe everything we think?

What is:
Thoughts are opinions, not facts. They can be wrong or exaggerated.

200

What is it called when you assume the worst possible outcome will happen?

What is:
Catastrophizing

200

According to the cognitive triangle, what shapes your feelings and behaviors?

What is:
Your thoughts

200

Give an example of a healthy and an unhealthy coping skill.

What is:
Journaling, deep breathing, grounding, exercise, 5 senses technique, progressive muscle relaxation, etc.

Vs

Substance use, fighting/punching something, yelling at others, etc.

200

Name one physical sign your body might give you when you're starting to feel angry.

What is:
Rapid heart rate, clenched fists, clenched jaw, hot face, furrowed brow, flexed muscles, curled toes

200

Name one question you can ask yourself to check whether a thought is true.

What is:
What's the evidence for and against this thought? How do I know this thought is true?

300

What distortion is it when you assume you know what someone else is thinking, without asking?

What is:
Mind reading

300

If someone thinks, "Nobody likes me," what feeling would likely follow?

What is:
Sadness or loneliness

300

What is the 5 senses technique?

What is:
A grounding technique. Naming 5 things you see, 4 you hear, 3 you feel, 2 you smell, 1 you taste

300

What do we call it when you push down an emotion instead of dealing with it?

What is:

Avoidance or suppression

300

What would a more balanced version of this thought sound like: "I'll never get better."

What is:
This is hard right now, but I can make progress with time and support.

400
What distortion is this: "My friend is in a bad mood -- it must be something I did."

What is:
Personalization

400

Give a behavior that could reinforce the thought, "I have no friends."

What is:

Avoiding people/isolating

400

Why should you practice coping skills when you're calm?

What is:

They become easier to access automatically under stress if they're already familiar.

400

What is the difference between a feeling and a thought?

What is:
A feeling is an emotion, a thought is a mental statement or belief

400

What do we call a thought that pops into your head without effort?

What is:
An automatic thought

500

What distortion is this: "I feel like a failure, so I must actually be one."

What is:
Emotional reasoning

500

Why does changing just one point in the triangle change the other two?

What is:

They are interconnected; a shift in one affects the entire cycle

500

What might make it hard for someone to use a coping skill in a moment of distress, even if it normally works?

What is:
Too overwhelmed to remember it, not having practiced it enough, feeling like it's too much effort in the moment

500

Name two benefits of expressing emotions in a healthy way instead of holding them in.

What is:
Reduces built-up stress, prevents outbursts, improves communication with others, maintains a neutral emotional baseline, etc.

500

Someone tells you, "I know challenging my thoughts won't actually change how I feel." How would you respond?

What is:
Thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are connected. Shifting the thought can shift the feeling, even if it takes practice and does not happen instantly.