What's your favorite color?
Your choice
Name something that makes you smile
Current sources of joy, memories vs. present activities
What's something fun you do with your sister?
Your choice
What's something that's been hard lately?
Sometimes changes in my routine are hard for me - I like knowing what to expect....
What's something you're really good at?
I'm pretty good at
What's the best game you've ever played?
Sample answers: Board games, video games, outdoor activities
What do you do when you feel angry?
Healthy coping (talk, play, exercise) (aggression, isolation, self-harm)
What's your favorite thing about your mom?
The thing I loved most about my mom...
When things feel confusing, what helps?
Coping strategies, support-seeking, whether adults explain things
How do you help others?
I help others by...
If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
Control themes (invisibility, time travel to "fix" things), protection themes (super strength, shields), escape themes (flying away)
Who do you talk to when something is bothering you?
Support system
Who makes you laugh the most?
Connection to peers, family members
What do you wish grown-ups understood better?
When I was younger, I wished adults knew that even though I was a kid, my feelings were still really important"
What makes you a good friend/brother?
Relational strengths, protective instincts
What's your favorite thing to do on weekends?
Your choice!
What helps you feel better when you're sad?
Adaptive coping strategies
What's a good memory you have with your family?
I remember family....
What would make things easier for you right now?
It would make things easier if....
Tell me about a problem you solved recently
I figured out how to fix something that wasn't working by trying different solutions
If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?
Describe a time you felt really proud of yourself
Recent accomplishments, self-esteem indicators
If you could plan a perfect day with someone, who would it be and what would you do?
I would....
If you had a magic wand to change one thing, what would it be?
That's a really hard question - I think a lot of people wish they had a magic wand sometimes
What do people say is special about you?
How others see him, internalized positive messages, whether he can identify any