Communication Basics
Early Infancy
Toddler Milestones
Language-Rich Days
Listening and Feelings
100

Babbling, crying, facial expressions, gestures, and eye gaze are all examples of this.

What is communication?

100

Around this age, babies may make sounds other than crying and smile at people who talk or smile.

What is around 2 months?

100

Around 15 months, children may point to ask for this.

What is something they want?

100

Talking while feeding, dressing, playing, or getting ready for a nap turns these into learning opportunities.

What are everyday routines.

100

Active listening means giving a child your attention, not just doing this.

What is hearing the words?

200

This type of communication means understanding words, tone, gestures, and facial expressions.

What is receptive communication?

200

Around this age, babies may coo, make sounds back, and turn toward a familiar voice.

What is around 4 months?

200

Around 18 months, toddlers may follow simple direction without needing these extra cues.

What are gestures?

200

When a child says "Dog!", and adult might respond, "Yes, a big brown dog is running." This strategy adds language and is called this.

What is expanding on the child's words?

200

Getting down to the child's level, turning toward them, and using a calm expression help show this.

What is focused attention?

300

This type of communication means sharing needs, ideas, or feelings through sounds, gestures, signs, pictures, or words.

What is expressive communication?
300

Around this age, babies may squeal and begin babbling consonant sounds such as "m" or "b".

What is around 6 months?
300

Around 24 months, children may begin combining at least this many words.

What are two words?

300

Reading together, singing songs, and repeating rhymes are ways to support this.

What is language development?

300

Repeating the main idea in your own words and naming a possible emotion are ways to do this.

What is active listening?

400

Taking turns, noticing others, and sharing attention during interaction is part of this.

What is social engagement?

400

Around 9 months, babies may respond to this when someone says it.

What is their name?

400

Between 30 and 36 months, children may ask questions and take several of these during conversation. 

What are conversational turns?

400

Instead of directing every interaction, adults should follow the child's interests and these.

What are cues?

400

If you guess a child's feeling incorrectly, accept their correction and do this.

What is listen and try again?

500

Milestones should be used as helpful guides for observing and supporting children, not as this.

What is a competition or a label?

500

Waving bye-bye and possibly saying "mama" or "dada" are examples of skills around this age.

What is around 12 months?
500

When a child's development concerns you, share specific observation with the pediatrician rather than doing this yourself.

What is diagnosing the child?

500

When a child looks at or reaches for something, naming what they notice is one way to do this.

What is respond to the child's communication?

500

If you cannot stop immediately because you are handling a hot pan, tell the child you want to listen, finish making things safe, and then do this.

What is follow through and listen?