🟪 Category 1: Respect & Workplace Culture
🟧 Category 2: Compassion in Action
🟩 Category 3: Culture Check-In
🟨 Category 4: Responding to Children
🟥 Category 5: The Gossip Shift
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100: What does a respectful workplace feel like to you?

Calm, safe, and open. People listen to each other and no one feels dismissed.

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100: What does compassion look like in small, everyday actions?

Checking in on someone, giving them space when needed, or offering help without being asked. 

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100: What’s something about our team culture that you celebrate?

We’re quick to celebrate small wins and lift each other up. 

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100: What’s the difference between a punitive and a trauma-informed response?

Punitive is about control and consequences; trauma-informed is about understanding and teaching. 

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100: Why is gossip harmful in team settings?

It breaks trust, spreads misinformation, and creates a culture of fear or division. 

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200

200: How do we show respect even when we disagree?

By listening fully, not interrupting, and acknowledging the other person's view before offering our own. 

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200: How do you care for yourself while caring for others?

I set small boundaries like taking a quiet break, journaling, or asking for support when I’m overwhelmed. 

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200: What’s one thing we can all do to create a stronger team culture?

Regularly acknowledge each other's efforts—even the small ones. 

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200: How do you regulate yourself when a child is dysregulated?

I remind myself it’s not personal, breathe deeply, and speak slowly and calmly. 

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200: What’s a healthy way to bring up a concern instead of gossiping?

Have a direct 1:1 conversation or ask for a facilitated discussion with a lead. 

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300

300: What’s one way you make someone feel included at work?

Greeting people by name and invite quieter teammates into conversations. 

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300: Share a moment when someone showed you compassion at work.

A coworker noticed I was overwhelmed and stepped in to help without making me feel guilty. 

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300: What’s an area we need to grow in—and how can you contribute?

We need to improve direct communication. I can model that by having honest conversations respectfully. 

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300: Why is teaching—not punishing—the goal in child guidance?

Because children learn best through connection. Punishment might stop a behavior, but it doesn’t teach skills. 

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300: How does a culture of open communication build trust?

People know they can speak up without being judged, and conflicts are addressed instead of ignored. 

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400: When conflict happens, what helps you stay kind and grounded?

Taking a deep breath, reminding myself of our shared goals, and staying focused on solving the issue rather than blaming. 

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400

400: What does compassion toward coworkers look like during tough times?

Being patient, offering to help, and not judging them for being off their game. 

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400: What’s one positive change you’ve seen in our program culture recently?

More open discussion in meetings—it feels like voices are being heard more. 

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400: What helps you pause before reacting in the heat of a moment?

I try to notice my own body (clenched jaw, racing heart) and take a breath before responding. 

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400

400: How would you support a teammate caught in a negative conversation?

I’d gently redirect the conversation or suggest they speak directly to the person involved. 

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500

500: Share one quality that makes a team truly connected.

Trust. When we trust each other, communication flows and we can be vulnerable without fear. 

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500: What does being “seen” or “valued” at work mean to you?

When someone recognizes my effort, listens to my ideas, or says “thank you” in a genuine way. 

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500: Describe the kind of culture you personally want to help build here.

One that is empathetic, honest, and brave—where people feel safe to grow and mess up. 

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500: Create a “DO” and “DON’T” for behavior redirection with kids.

DO: Speak calmly at eye level. DON’T: Yell or shame the child. 

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500: What might a restorative circle look like in our workplace?

A safe, respectful space where team members can share openly, listen deeply, and work through challenges together. 

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