True or False
Bullying is the smallest and least serious type of conflict.
FALSE
This type of conflict is when people don't see eye to eye or have the same thoughts or opinions about something.
Disagreement/Argument
Which month is National Bullying Prevention Month?
October
What is the very first thing you need to do when you have a conflict with someone?
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Name your feeling and calm down. Getting calmed down should always be the first step before talking or acting in a conflict.
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**10 MORE BONUS POINTS** If you can name 3 things you can do to help get yourself calmed down
What is the name of the holiday that occurs next Thursday?
Thanksgiving
TRUE
Give an example of an unfair/rude moment.
Someone takes the last cookie before you could get one, someone isn't pay attention and runs into another person in the hallway and knocks them down, someone is focused on getting outside and isn't paying attention and cuts in front of people in line, etc.
Why do we not want to call every conflict or mean thing that happens bullying?
Because bullying is very serious and if we call everything bullying it can lose its power or it can be hard to tell what actually is bullying and what isn't- like the story of the boy who cried wolf
What does it mean if a conflict is de-escalating?
The conflict is getting better! The people in the conflict are doing things to help it rather than make it worse. They could be speaking calmly and politely, listening to each other, and working to find a win-win solution.
How many states are there in the United States of America?
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50
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You ALWAYS need to get help or tell an adult when you have any type of conflict with someone.
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FALSE
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What are 3 things that can escalate (make it worse) ANY type of conflict?
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Yelling, saying mean things back and forth, pushing/hitting/physically hurting someone, getting other people involved, refusing to help or talk about the conflict with the other person, not getting calmed down first, exploding or reacting in a big way, pouting, etc.
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Why is it bad to call someone a bully?
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It gives them a negative label and can encourage them to keep acting in mean ways. It doesn't help them change their behavior or make better choices.
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When we have a conflict it is important that we talk it out with the person we are having the conflict with. What is it called when we use a statement like this: I feel ______ when you_______ could you please
_______?
An I-Message
There is a new movie coming out next month about this web-slinging superhero. What is his name?
Spiderman
When we have a conflict with someone, we need to talk to the person we are having the conflict with. We shouldn't go tell other friends and try to get them involved in our conflict.
TRUE
Sarah called June a name at lunch today. June wrote Sarah a note back telling her she was dumb. The girls kept doing and saying these kind of things to each other for two weeks.
This is an example of which type of conflict and why?
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Mean moment
Because both girls are doing/saying mean things to each other. It isn't just one girl always hurting the other girl. It may be happening over and over, but neither girl has more power because they're both choosing to do mean things to each other.
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There are four different kinds of bullying that we learned about. For example, verbal bullying is when a person uses words to hurt someone (threatening them, calling them mean names). What is one other kind of bullying?
Cyber-bullying, physical bullying, social bullying
You're playing a tagging game at recess and a classmate of yours gets tagged but doesn't go to be a tagger. You tell them they are a tagger and they say they didn't get tagged.
What would be the best choice to try to resolve this conflict?
A. Go tell a teacher
B. Start yelling and arguing with them
C. Push them
D. Use an I-message or just ignore it and keep playing
D
What is the largest mammal in the world?
A whale
An unfair/rude moment is when a person is only thinking about themselves and tries to hurt another person on purpose
FALSE
Name the 4 types of conflict we have learned
1. Disagreements/Arguments
2. Unfair/Rude Moments
3. Mean Moments
4. Bullying
There are 3 things that HAVE to happen for something to be considered bullying. What are those 3 things?
1. It has to happen over and over
2. It has to be purposely hurtful
3. There has to be an imbalance of power (person being hurt feels powerless)
The video we watched last Friday mentioned that if you are really having a hard time with a conflict and the things you've tried aren't working, it can be helpful to bring in an adult or someone who can be trusted to be fair, to help listen, and to come up with possible solutions for the conflict. What was this person called?
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Mediator
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Name the 6 original Marvel Avengers
OR
Name the 5 emotion characters inside Riley's head in the movie Inside Out
Captain America, Thor, Iron Man, Black Widow, Hawkeye, and the Hulk
OR
Joy, Sadness, Anger, Disgust, and Fear