conflict
What is conflict?
a problem, an issue, a disagreement with others or ourselves
Give me an example of blaming someone for your actions
When a staff asked what you did in the conflict, and you blame others instead of taking ownership on your behavior/actions.
If the solution did not work, you need to try another one: True or False
True
What is a feeling we may have when having an internal conflict?
anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, confusion
What is resolution?
solving a problem
Why should we not blame someone else for our actions?
It is important to take responsibility for your own actions.
Who can you ask for help when you are trying to solve a problem?
Staff, Friend, Family member
Conflict resolution should include appropriate ways to solve problems. What does appropriate mean
In a calm and kind manner
If you understand how the other person feels when solving your problem does it make it easier to try to find a solution?
Yes, it is important to be a good listener.
When exploring solutions to a problem, you should think of what?
The possible outcomes; both the good and bad consequences.
When you are mad, what do you need to do before solving your problem
Ask for a break, take some time to cool off and think before you talk.
What is something you can do in order to have a successful conflict resolution?
cool off, share and listen, take responsibility, brainstorm ideas, choose a solution, agree on a solution, forgive/thank/apologize
what is internal conflict
a problem you are dealing with within yourself
When thinking about a solution to a problem, it should be
safe and respectful
When you get angry and yell at someone for trying to help you..what should you do?
Ask for some space, take a break, then apologize and talk to them.
What does it mean to brainstorm ideas when resolving conflict
to discuss all ideas that are safe and supported by both friends.
Give an example of internal conflict
Not wanting to do your math, but knowing you should.
What does respectful mean?
Being safe, and showing respect towards someone else.
What are two things that will help you when you are trying to solve a conflict
Listening and treating everyone with respect
What is compromise?
When you agree to get some of what you want but not everything you want.