Definitions
What is Conflict Resolution?
Conflict resolution is the process of peacefully resolving disagreements by finding solutions, improving communication, and using strategies like compromising to address issues without violence, name-calling, or running away.
You and a friend can't agree on what game to play at recess.
What should you do?
Compromise. Play a game you can both agree on. Or take turns playing 2 different games.
Recognize that there is a conflict and that there is a difference in opinions.
Recognize the Problem
You can talk to this person at school. She's the school counselor and her office is in the library.
Ms. Jones
What is Assertive Communication?
Assertive communication is a direct, honest, and respectful way to express your feelings, needs, and boundaries while also acknowledging the rights and needs of others.
You are mad at your friend because he ignored you in the cafeteria and sat with someone else.
What do you do?
Talk it out. Explain your feelings.
Talk about the conflict
Face the Conflict
You can talk to this adult when you're upset about classwork or an issue that happened in class.
Your classroom teacher
What is a conflict?
A conflict is when 2 or more people have a disagreement.
You're crying because you had an argument with a friend. Your teacher is trying to help you cope and handle the conflict, but you've shut down and don't feel like talking.
What do you do?
Explain to your teacher why you're upset without shouting. Calmly, explain what happened and allow your teacher to help.
Thinking about new ideas and compromising.
Propose solutions
You can talk to this adult when things happen at lunch. He's usually found talking in the microphone.
Mr. Calixto
What is Compromise?
A compromise means reaching an agreement where each person gives up a little of what they want so everyone can agree on a solution.
You accidentally pushed a classmate in line while waiting for lunch.
What do you do?
Apologize to classmate.
Explain it was an accident.
Be more cautious of your surroundings.
Recognizing and understanding the other persons perspective and talked it out.
Value Points of View
These people are usually around your age and can sometimes understand what's going on. They try to help you when they can; however, some problems are better left for adults to handle.
Your friends or classmates