Conflict
What is conflict?
a problem, an issue, a disagreement with others or ourselves
Give me an example of blaming someone for your actions
telling the person you never, you always, its your fault
If the solution did not work, you need to try another one: True or False
*Double Jeopardy*
True
What is a feeling we may have when having an internal conflict?
anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, confusion
John must go to a family member's birthday party. However, John doesn't want to go, he wants to spend time with his friends. How can John solve this internal conflict?
Attend the birthday party or try to compromise with his parents.
What is resolution? ( Think "solution" )
solving a problem
Why should we not blame someone else for our actions?
Who can you ask for help when you are trying to solve a problem?
Teacher, friend, family member
Conflict resolution should include appropriate ways to solve problems. What are positive ways to solve a conflict?
in a non-violent, non-angry way. showing calm and kindness. Talking it out, compromising.
Who can people have conflicts with?
*Double Jeopardy*
Within yourself With one person Between two or more people Within a group Between two or more groups
If you understand how the other person feels when solving your problem does it make it easier to try to find a solution?
*Double Jeopardy*
yes
When exploring solutions to a problem, you should think of what
the outcomes; good and bad consequences
When you are mad, what do you need to do before solving your problem
walk away, calm down, cool off
What is something you can do in order to have a successful conflict resolution?
cool off, share and listen, take responsibility, brainstorm ideas, choose a solution, agree on a solution, forgive/thank/apologize
Your mom woke you up from a nap because you have basketball practice soon. You start to yell at her, what should you do after you calm down?
Apologize for yelling at her.
What is internal conflict
A problem you are dealing with within yourself
When thinking about a solution to a problem, it should be
safe and respectful
When you yell at someone who is trying to help you, you walk away, and then come back. Is it okay not to apologize?
No, you should always take responsibility for your actions, and apologize.
What does it mean to brainstorm ideas when resolving conflict
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to discuss all ideas that are safe and supported by all involve
Why is it important to know how to solve a conflict?
Because conflict happens with all of us and learning to to resolve it is a skill. Understanding/learning about it increases our knowledge and awareness of it.
Give an example of internal conflict
Not wanting to do homework , but knowing you should.
What does respectful mean?
*Double Jeopardy*
Being safe, and showing respect towards someone else.
What are two things that will help you when you are trying to solve a conflict
Listening and treating everyone with respect
What is compromise?
When you agree to get some of what you want but not everything
How can knowing you are feeling frustrated and angry during a conflict be useful?
Awareness of the feeling helps keep your emotions in check. It also helps you know if you need to take a break from the situation and return when you are calm.