conflict
What is conflict?
a problem, an issue, a disagreement with others or ourselves
Give me an example of blaming someone for your actions
telling the person you never, you always, its your fault
If the solution did not work, you need to try another one: True or False
True
What is a feeling we may have when having an internal conflict?
anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, confusion
What is resolution?
solving a problem
Why should we not blame someone else for our actions?
Who can you ask for help when you are trying to solve a problem?
Teacher, family member, WELLNESS CENTER, counselor
What is the FIRST step in dealing with conflict?
Focus on the problem NOT the person.
If you understand how the other person feels when solving your problem does it make it easier to try to find a solution? (yes or no)
yes
When exploring solutions to a problem, you should think of what
the outcomes; good and bad consequences
When you are mad, what do you need to do before solving your problem
walk away, calm down, cool off
What is something you can do in order to have a successful conflict resolution?
cool off, share and listen, take responsibility, brainstorm ideas, choose a solution, agree on a solution, forgive/thank/apologize
True or False: You can have conflict with someone and still be respectful with one another?
When thinking about a solution to a problem, it should be
safe and respectful
When you cuss and yell at someone for trying to help you, you walk away, and then come back. Is it okay to not apologize?
No, you should always take responsibility for your actions, and apologize.
Explain step number 3 (dont just listen but HEAR)
When we are upset, we often focus on getting OUR point a cross, instead reflect on what the other person is telling you.
True or False: In middle school, often, conflict begins when we LISTEN to the rumors others have said.
TRUE: It is important to gather facts versus opinions.
What does respectful mean?
Being safe, and showing respect towards someone else.
What are two things that will help you when you are trying to solve a conflict
Listening and treating everyone with respect
What is compromise?
When you agree to get some of what you want but not everything