Characteristics of Conflict
After their group project received a low grade, Maria and Jake avoided eye contact and refused to speak to each other. Maria rolled her eyes whenever Jake talked in class, and he responded by ignoring her completely.
Expressed Struggle
Unlike contention, which divides relationships, properly managed conflict builds this between individuals.
Trust
Sarah wants to use their family’s savings for a vacation, but her husband, David, insists on saving for home repairs. Each believes their plan is the only right choice.
Incompatible Goals
The alternative to conflict, which escalates tensions and damages relationships, is known as this.
Contention
Mark and Olivia both needed the last open computer in the library to finish their assignments. Mark grabbed the chair, while Olivia insisted she was there first.
Scarce resources
According to the preparation homework in 6.2, our approach to conflict determines whether we experience this in our relationships.
Success or failure
James and his business partner relied on each other to handle different aspects of their startup. When James refused to do his part, his partner struggled to keep things running.
Dependence
To manage conflict effectively, one must separate this from the issue at hand to find a mutually beneficial solution.
The Person
Liam trained all year for a track competition, but his coach changed the lineup at the last minute, preventing him from competing.
Interference
To effectively resolve conflict, understanding this ... will help us pinpoint, then resolve conflict
"Why" there is conflict