Getting Along
Someone made a face at you. What should you do?
Ignore, Talk it Out, Use Humor(make a silly face back)
You just got new glasses and there is a student in your class that is teasing you about them. This hurts your feelings. What should you do?
Talk it out and share "I feel..", Ignore, Look in the mirror, and tell yourself "I am beautiful and I like my glasses"
You are working in a group in your classroom and one of the people in your group is not doing anything. What should you do?
ASK how they are feeling, Invite the person to do a part of the project, Tell an adult, Finish the project with the other students.
Someone on the bus is calling you names every day. This really hurts your feelings. What should you do?
Tell them how you feel "I feel...when..." If it doesn't stop, tell an adult!
Your best friend is starting to play with another student in your class instead of you. What should you do?
Tell them how you feel "I feel...when..." Go play with another student in class
Friends are allowed to have their OWN friends!
You are playing a game and you both want to go first. What should you do?
Rock/Paper/Scissors, compromise, take turns, negotiate
There are a group of kids on the playground from your class who are playing soccer and they tell you that you can't play because you aren't good enough. What should you do?
Share "I feel...", Go play soccer with another friend, Go play a different game, tell yourself "I am trying my best".
You are playing a game with some friends and you win. One of the players is really angry that you won and is not being a good sport about it. What should you do?
Talk it out, Remind them sometimes we win and sometimes we lose! Ask what they can do differently next time.
A student in your class was playing in the bathroom when you were in there, and you know that is not allowed. He threatens to hurt you if you tell the teacher. What should you do?
Get help and tell an adult!
Your friend always wants to be the one who chooses what game you will play. This is starting to get frustrating to you. What should you do?
Rock/Paper/Scissors, Tell them how you feel "I feel...when..."
You just got a new haircut and it is very different from your original look. You're worried that someone might make fun of it. You walk into the classroom and a student laughs and points at you. What should you do?
Tell them how it makes you feel, Ignore them, tell an adult!
You are working on a project with a partner and you both want to do the first part. What should you do?
Rock/Paper/Scissors, share, negotiate, talk it out, take turns
You see one of your friends being made fun of at recess by another student. What should you do?
Tell your friend to tell them how he/she/they feel "I feel...when..." Go play a game to keep your friend happy
Your best friend looks mad at you and is ignoring you but she hasn't told you why she's angry and you don't have a clue what is bothering her. What should you do?
Tell them how you feel "I feel...when...", ASK if they need space right now and come back when they are ready to talk
One of your friends was teasing you and things went too far and now you are mad. What should you do?
Talk it out, or wait until you're calm to talk to your friend, Ask for a break and then return
You asked your friend about her dad and she got very upset because she doesn't see her father anymore. You didn't mean to hurt her feelings but didn't realize that this might be a sensitive topic to her. What should you do?
Apologize, Talk it out, Understand not everyone has a mom or dad and next time ASK FIRST if they will like to talk about it.
You are part of a literature circle group for your class. When it is time to discuss the book that you are reading, another class member keeps interrupting you and you are getting mad. What should you do?
Use talking piece, Share "I feel mad when you are interrupting me".
A "friend" of yours is constantly making fun of you in front of other people but is nice to you when you are both alone. You are confused and hurt by this friend's actions. What should you do?
Tell them how you feel "I feel...when..." give examples!!
Your friend let you borrow one of his video games and now you can't find it. He is upset. What should you do?
Apologize
You heard someone whispering and you think you heard your name mentioned. What should you do?
Ignore, Talk it out, Think positive thoughts!
A new student just joined your class from another country and you assumed he was from Mexico because he was hispanic but he is really from El Salvador. This student was very offended. What should you do?
Apologize, talk it out, Invite them to play a game with you. Remember to not assume without ASKING first!
(Don't judge a book by its cover)
You are playing a game that requires you to be divided up into teams of 2. You don't like the person you are teamed up with, but the teacher said you have to work together. What should you do?
Take deep breaths and think positive. You don't have to like them but you HAVE to RESPECT them.
Someone started a rumor about you that was not true and very hurtful. You know who started it. What should you do?
Go ask the person you heard is talking about you, IGNORE,
Go do something kind for yourself (draw a picture, hug yourself, play with a friend)
Your only friend in the class is playing with someone that you don't like. You are getting frustrated by this. What should you do?
Breathe In and Out, do the 5-4-3-2-1 senses activity